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This is Ben and Ben knows the secret

to reading anyone instantly.

But before we can talk about that,

we need to first understand his childhood.

Little Ben has trouble talking with other people

and he can't pick up on basic social cues

like facial expressions or body language

and the medical term for this

is something called social emotional agnosia.

And as a result of this,

Ben started to develop social anxiety

and whenever he would talk with someone,

like an attractive girl for example,

he would just awkwardly smile

or he would just nod his head along

or give one or two word answers.

And this was a major problem for Ben

because the only thing that he really wanted in his life

was to have a wife and a family.

And if he couldn't get this, then in his mind,

he was destined to live alone and die alone

so he set out on a journey to cure himself.

At first, Ben tried to put himself out there more in school.

He figured the more social experience he had,

the better off he would be.

So he would raise his hand more in class

or he would try to talk to his classmates

but the problem with this is that when you are labeled

as that awkward kid or labeled as that weird kid,

most people just don't want anything to do with you

so most kids would just kind of ignore him.

So Ben decided that he would attend events

that were put on by other schools

because nobody there knew him.

But even at these events,

when he would try to talk to other people,

he still couldn't have

a meaningful conversation with someone.

He would totally be stuck in his head

and he would obsess over trying to read people

and he would overanalyze what they were saying

and how they were saying it

and the kids would often call him weird or awkward.

And over time, Ben started to dread all social interactions

and this caused him to go into a fairly deep depression

and he was very close to giving up on the dream

of having a wife and a family.

One morning, Ben woke up and discovered parts of his body

that were suddenly paralyzed

and over the next few days, the paralysis spread

and he was soon diagnosed with a disease called polio.

As he lay there in bed,

he heard his mother in the other room

discussing his case with the doctors

that the family had called in.

Assuming that Ben was asleep,

one of the doctors told her that

the boy will be dead by morning.

And he could hear his mom crying in the other room.

After the doctors left, his mother came into his room

clearly trying to disguise her grief,

unaware that Ben had overheard the conversation.

Ben asked his mother to move the mirror in his room

so it would face the window

and if he began to lose consciousness,

he would then focus on the sunset in the reflected mirror,

holding onto this image as long as he could.

The sun always returned so maybe he would too.

Within hours, he fell into a coma.

Ben regained consciousness three days later

so somehow, he had cheated death

but the paralysis had spread to his entire body.

Even his lips were paralyzed.

He could not move, he could not gesture

or communicate to anyone in any way.

And the only part of his body that he could move

were his eyeballs.

And the only social company that he had

were his seven sisters, his one brother, and his parents.

And for someone who had such an active mind,

the boredom was almost unbearable.

So the only thing that he could really do

was to focus on things that he could see and hear.

And when he looked outside,

he started to notice all these new details about nature,

like how the leaves on the tress

had all these little grooves on them.

And he would watch how the rain would fall

in between these grooves and then roll off the leaf.

And he would listen to the birds singing outside

and he noticed how they used all these different tones,

as if it was a small symphony.

He spent weeks just looking and listening.

But one day, as he was looking outside,

his sisters came into his room

to have a chat with one another

and as they were talking, Ben noticed something.

Their faces made all these movements

and the tone of their voices would change very frequently

in the course of the conversation.

For example, one sister said to another

yes, that's a good idea

but she said this with a monotone voice

and a noticeable smile on her face,

all of which would likely mean

that she didn't actually think it's a good idea.

So somehow, a yes could really mean a no

and Ben had never noticed this before

but due to his current state,

his eyesight and his hearing were all heightened.

In the course of the next few days,

he had counted 16 different forms of no

indicated through body language,

tone, and facial expressions.

If people said yes when they actually felt no,

it would appear through their body language

and tone of voice.

Ben found all of these observations somewhat interesting

but he found himself not really wanting to engage

in this little game.

What is the point of trying to understand people better

if you're going to die in a year or die in a few months?

Why even bother doing this, Ben thought to himself.

Ben could either let the disease consume him

or he could try to keep the most important muscle active

by focusing his brain on things like nature,

social interactions, or simply just thinking deeply

but at first, he didn't want to do this.

Then he thought about his dream of having a loving family.

He thought about having dinner with his wife

and he thought about playing with his kids in his yard.

He could either take the hard road

of keeping his dream alive and fight

or the easy road and just let the disease take over him.

Ben would try his best to keep fighting.

So Ben completely consumed himself

in observing other people.

He would watch their hand gestures, their vocal pitch,

their sudden arm movements, the way their legs move,

and the way their lips would quiver on certain topics.

He would even notice

how often the veins in his sister's neck

would pulsate when they stood over him,

indicating that they were nervous just by being around him.

And because his hearing was getting better,

he could now pick up on conversations in the other room

and he noticed a funny pattern.

In a conversation, people were rarely ever direct.

One sister would spend minutes beating around the bush,

leaving hints to others about what she really wanted,

such as to borrow something or hear an apology from someone

but she wouldn't ever just say it at first.

Her hidden desire was clearly indicated

by her tone of voice,

which gave emphasis to certain words

and her hope was that the other person

would pick up on this

and offer what she desperately desired.

But often times, the hints were ignored

and she would be forced to come out and say

what she actually wanted but by this point,

she was already frustrated with the situation.

Conversation after conversation

fell into this reoccurring pattern.

It was as if because of his paralysis,

he became aware of a second channel of human communication,

a second language for which people expressed something

from deep within themselves without even being aware of it.

He thought that perhaps the mind and the physical body

are much more connected than people realize

or maybe they're one of the same

because every single time that his sister wanted something

or they would be upset about something,

it would clearly show through their physical body.

So one day, Ben wanted to try something.

Ben was watching his brother and sister play outside

so he closed his eyes

and he imagined himself playing with them.

And in his head, he literally saw himself

standing up and walking around

and he put all of his mental energy

into this single imagination,

really trying to feel and experience the sensations

that he once felt.

And for a brief second, he felt the twitch in his leg

and this was the first time

that he had felt any movement in his body at all

and this simple twitch gave him hope.

So he began to focus deeply

into every single muscle in his leg

and he would remember the sensation he had in his body

before the paralysis.

And over time, he started to have success

and the slightest bit of movement

would return to the muscle.

After some more time, he even started to stand up

and to take a few steps.

And then later, he would walk around his room then sit down

and then after some more time,

he started to walk around outside

and he slowly just kept increasing the distance

inch by inch and over time,

Ben became a functional walking adult

and he did this through the power of his mind.

He realized through watching his family communicate

that the mind does not operate different from the body

but rather, they are completely connected.

Ben became so fascinated with communication

that he began to study psychology

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