hey what's up life masters this is
Stefan Jamison project life mastery
today I'm going to share with you the
ten excuses that people make that stop
them from ever being rich successful or
achieving their goals and dreams and
really what I want to do here is to help
you identify what is holding you back
what's preventing you from taking action
and being successful or making more
money or achieving your goals and dreams
and I'd venture to say that the only
thing that's stopping you from getting
what you really want is a story that you
keep telling yourself about why you
can't have it and the story we all have
a story
we all have an excuse we all have a
reason we all have BS that we tell
ourselves belief systems that are
self-imposed
and they prevent us from taking action
so the purpose of this video is I want
to help you develop awareness because
you can't change something if you're
first not aware of it we've got to know
where you are and what's holding you
back and where you want to go and we can
help overcome those self-imposed
limitations that limiting mindset that's
keeping you stuck so that we can make
sure that you're making the progress and
to take to get to where you want to go
okay so excuse number one I'm going to
share if you I'm gonna walk you through
each of them and I'm gonna provide for
you the solution I'm gonna challenge
your mindset your psychology right now
for the moment this might be a little
bit controversial but as your friend and
as your coach if you allow me to be one
for you I'd love to challenge you a
little bit to help you question these
thoughts or limiting beliefs that you
have they're keeping you where you are
because I want to make sure that we can
break help you break free from this and
get on that path of success and mastery
and what you want in your life so let's
dive into it excuse number one that I
hear people say time and time again is I
don't know where to begin or I don't
know how to get started this comes up a
lot whether it's starting an online
business or people saying I don't know
how to get started or where to begin or
maybe it's investing or real estate or a
new career for you or whatever it might
be that people they allow the story in
the excuse I'm not knowing how to get
started
prevent them from getting in the game
prevent them from taking action and that
the way that I want to challenge you on
this one is that it's not that you don't
know where to begin it's not that you
don't know how to get started I would
venture to say that the reality in the
truth is
is that you don't have a strong enough
why or purpose on why you should get
started and why you want to be
successful why you want to be rich why
you want to achieve the school injury
because eighty percent towards success
is why to be successful and only twenty
percent is how to be successful because
listen to me if you have a strong enough
why if you have a strong enough purpose
of what you want and why you want it
then you'll find the way you'll find the
way or you'll make the way you'll figure
out the how you can't let the tyranny of
the house stop you from getting in the
game because part of figuring out where
to start or how to get started or how to
do it part of that comes from you just
taking massive action right when you
want it bad enough you'll go to Google
you'll find the answers when you want it
bad enough you'll go to YouTube and
access your resource fulness is really
what it is to find the resources that
you need to build your business or
achieve what it is that you want but
that only comes when you have a strong
enough why it's almost no different than
you want to lose weight is it really
that difficult or challenging to figure
out how to lose weight of course not
there's so much information and
resources on how to do it but often
times people they feel held back and
it's because they're afraid to really
get started they're afraid of going
forward 100% and they think they have to
know everything for them to begin right
you know there's a lot of people out
there they want to lose 30 pounds but
they think well I can't get started yet
because I've got to know the right
workout program I got to know the right
eating plan I gotta find the right coach
I got to find the right gym I gotta find
the right everything for me before I
start and listen you don't need any of
that to start if you gotta lose 30
pounds honestly you just got to get out
there on the road and start going for a
walk and a run you know and then as you
start taking action guess what happens
as new new strategies new ideas better
ways of doing things now become
available for you so the key is is
you've got to want it bad enough and
when you want it bad enough you'll start
going to Google and start going to
YouTube you'll find the coaches the
mentors you'll find the books and the
resources because now you're resourceful
and the key here is just to start and to
begin even if you're not doing the right
things that's not the right path taking
action is better than not taking action
and so at least by taking action it's
gonna open up new doors and
opportunities for you it's almost like
if you're
trying to find the right man or woman in
your life you don't just wait till the
right man or woman just suddenly appears
because you don't even know yet what you
want and what you don't want and whether
or not this man or woman is the right
fit until you go on a date with them and
sometimes you might have to go on a few
dates with them for you to really know
what that is
so don't let that stop you from taking
action know what your weiying your
purpose is get in the game take some
action any action I don't care what it
is find books resources whatever it
takes if you want it bad enough truly
you'll start doing whatever it takes
you'll find the way or you'll make the
way excuse number two that people tell
themselves is I don't have the education
I'm not smart enough and I don't have
the knowledge okay let me put it to you
this way how many people throughout
history or on this planet currently that
are incredibly successful did incredibly
wealthy and rich to achieve incredible
goals and dreams and yet they weren't
the smartest people in fact how many of
them even dropped out of high school or
college and yet are some of the people
that we look up today as some of the
most successful and wealthiest people on
this planet there's countless examples
of people like that whether it's a Bill
Gates or Mark Zuckerberg or even a
Thomas Edison that was told by his
teachers that he was an idiot he wasn't
gonna amount to much in his life to a
Richard Branson who was dyslexic see
there's a lot of people out there that
are smart and they have the information
they have the knowledge and yet they
don't succeed because you've got to
understand that knowledge is not power
knowledge is only potential powers only
power to the extent of being used the
real power is your ability to execute
and take massive action and going back
to excuse number one in the solution I
provided for you when you have that wine
that purpose and you're resourceful then
you tap into your creativity you tap
into your resourcefulness and you're
gonna get further ahead than the person
that might know more than you but is not
doing anything with what they know so
knowing is not enough you got to you
can't just know what to do but you got
to do what you know and the knowledge is
more accessible today than ever before
I mean that knowledge that you can get
the answers of what you're looking for
you can find for free on Google on
YouTube on podcasts you can go to the
library and find books to take out that
other people that have already paved the
way
they have already achieved success and
by the way I believe that anybody can be
successful because other people have
already done it and what one man or
woman can do another man or woman can do
they've already paved the way all you've
got to do is model them you've got to
learn from them an extract from them
their mindset and their behaviors their
actions and if you apply that you can
get similar results in your life so as
long as you learn from other people
whether it's going to Google or YouTube
or finding the books or the courses and
training programs are available to do
and achieve almost anything that you
want if you want to learn a language
there's courses that can teach you that
if you want to build an internet
business there's courses that will walk
you through step by step by step how to
do that so that way you don't have to
learn from your own experience you can
learn from other people's experiences
people that are smarter than you are and
then already made you know gone through
the hard part of the journey you can
learn from them and fast track and
accelerate your progress and your
success by doing things that way so
don't think that you have to be the
smartest person don't think you have to
have all the knowledge and information
the knowledge the information the steps
the sequence the path is available for
you all you got to do is just look for
it and find it commit to it invest in it
and actually apply it excuse number
three that keeps people stuck is when
they say to themselves now's not the
right time for me I'll do it later when
I have more time when I have more money
when I can really focus on it that's
what I'm gonna focus on my success my
future my goals my dreams my wealth if
you catch yourself falling into that
trap of save yourself some time later in
the future what you're gonna find is
that most often leader never comes some
day leads to a town called nowhere and
my friends now is the only time that you
have right now in this moment in fact
everyone that I ever know has ever
become successful or achieved anything
great one thing that they always say
they always say this I wish that I
started earlier sooner and the saying go
is the best time to have planted the
tree was 20 years ago but the next best
time is right now today so you've got to
have a sense of urgency in your life
tomorrow's not promised to you today is
all you have and we got to make sure
you're getting the most out of your life
and you're at least making progress
towards what you want right now today
don't put it off because you don't have
time when you save yourself oh you know
I have my whole life ahead of me you've
got to be more aware in my opinion of
your mortality that life is short we
only get one shot through this life and
I don't know about you but I want to
make sure I make it count and so making
sure that we're not putting it off
because you know if you just started
today the sooner that you start the
sooner that you go for it the sooner you
get what you want the sooner you're
gonna be where you want to be in fact if
you had started this journey maybe a
year ago or two years ago three years
ago right now today you would have the
life maybe of what you want you might
have the money you might have the
success and so you could already have it
now if you just started a few years
earlier so that's you know gone we can't
go back we don't have a time machine to
go back and make changes like that but
what we can change and do have control
over is what we do right now today in
this moment and so don't put it off do
something to commit yourself to making
the progress and achieving what you want
otherwise they're always gonna say to
yourself later sometime in the future
and that time will never come yours will
go by and you're still haven't started
you still haven't made the progress that
you want and then you're not gonna feel
good about yourself and you're gonna
have the lower self-esteem and
confidence to really go for it and
pursue it so start today don't put
things off get started take action
create a plan and start making the
progress you want to make excuse number
four that stops people it seemed in
themselves that it's too hard or it's
too difficult so let me share with you a
different mindset you don't want things
to be easy in your life in fact you want
it to be hard you want it to be
challenging because if it was easy then
everybody would be successful everybody
would be running around having success
or money whatever it might be a people
that are entitled that didn't really you
know work hard for it they didn't really
deserve it they didn't earn it and we
don't want that we want people that have
achieved success because they worked for
it and they earned it and by doing so
you value it so much more because one
thing you got to understand is that it's
not what you get it's who you become who
you become as everything that's what's
going to give you the pride the
self-esteem the confidence in your life
because on this journey that you're
going to embark on the journey that is
challenging that is difficult
it's going to force you to become more
it's gonna force you to be more
confident it's gonna force you to be
more disciplined it's gonna force you to
have new habits that can support you
it's gonna force you to add value and
contribute by solving a problem or
creating a great product or service can
really help people it's gonna force you
to make better decisions it's gonna
force you to be more resourceful and you
become more in the path and the journey
because it is difficult because you are
gonna have to go through some adversity
and challenges and failures and mistakes
that you learn from it and you become
more in that process so that's a good
thing you want things to be challenging
for you and it's only really hard or
difficult because you've never done it
but sure enough once you go through it
you have the confidence you learn the
skills you get the right information the
right knowledge it actually becomes easy
it becomes fun right some of the most
successful people in the world today
it's not hard work for them it's what
they love is what they enjoy and they're
so skilled at it they've been doing it
so long and it actually becomes easy for
them so don't let the fact that it might
be difficult or challenging get in the
way and stop you from beginning and
going for it you know change the mindset
and look forward to the challenges and
the difficulties that you will go
through now another mindset that I want
to share with you is that if you do
what's easy right now today in your life
as many people are you might be doing
that right now in your life just focus
on playing it safe and being comfortable
and secure if you're living your life
that way and doing what's easy today but
you're not willing to do what's hard in
your life I've got news for you I can
promise you that later in your life
you'll pay the price later in your life
there's a consequence for that which is
that you'll have to deal with what's
hard and difficult later in your life
see a lot of people they're not willing
to discipline themselves they're not
willing to do what's difficult and hard
today to build the strength to build the
muscle to build the psychology the
mindset that they need that inevitably
later in life when challenges do occur
universities do occur they don't have
the strength to endure it and overcome
it you know coz later in life if you
don't discipline yourself today you're
gonna have the regret later later in
your life you might have to deal with
the bankruptcy you might have to deal
with you know not being able to retire
comfortably you might deal with
challenges of having kids in the family
and not because you weren't willing to
do what's hard and difficult early in
your life now it's gonna be a lot harder
than a life I can promise you that or
because you didn't want to do what's
difficult in your life early on take
care of your body and working out and
eating right then later in life gonna do
love was what's hard for so many people
of dealing with low energy fatigue or
disease like cancer or heart disease or
because you weren't willing to do was
difficult or hard early on in the
relationship to really take care of
their marriage or relationship with
their loved ones and later in their life
who deal with what's hard of maybe going
through a divorce or not having that
passion or that love so I don't know
about you but I'd much rather pay the
price upfront that much rather do it's
hard today so that later in my life
things will be a lot easier for me one
of my favorite quotes and Jim Rowland is
that there's two pains of life there's a
pain of discipline and then there's a
pain and regret discipline weighs ounces
regret waste tons so it's up to you do
you want to do what's hard today and if
you do so I can promise you things will
be so much easier for you later in your
life or what you ret rather do it's easy
now today be comfortable then deal two
consequences of that later in your life
to deal with the difficulties and
challenges that will arise so be willing
to embrace what is hard and difficult
because that makes things a lot easier
for you later in your life because also
you develop the strength and the skills
and become that kind of person that can
handle anything in your life you know if
you or a level 3 person you have a level
7 problem that level 7 problems gonna
consume you you become a level 10 person
that level 7 problem you're gonna be
able to consume it and overcome anything
that shows up for you in your life so
that comes from enduring and going
through the difficulties and the
challenges of life to develop that
emotional spiritual psychological and
mental strength excuse number 5 is I
don't have the time and yet you have the
time to watch this video or to listen to
this podcast or the crazy thing that
human beings do is they actually spend
time talking about and complaining about
the fact that they don't have time
pretty crazy right we're pretty
interesting as human beings but listen
if you catch yourself saying this you
got to stop yourself you have the time
okay we all have the same amount of time
24 hours in a day it's the only thing
that's equal it's what you do with the
time that really matters okay you and I
have the same amount of time you have
the same amount of time as the top CEOs
the top presidents the leaders of this
world but it's not as much time
management but it's priority management
see you give and commit your time to
whatever is important enough for you
whatever you value whatever is a
priority for you and for a lot of you
you're not making your goals success
making money and wealth you're not
making that high enough priority for you
it's not a must it's a should you don't
want it bad enough and so you'd much
rather prioritize and give your time to
maybe sleeping eight hours a day and
it's not you know right or wrong but a
lot of the most successful people I know
they've been willing to sacrifice and
give up some of their sleep sleep in
seven hours or six hours and giving up
some of that so they can free up their
time to focus on their goals and their
dreams or maybe you're prioritizing
instead time with your friends or family
or to watch movies on Netflix or they go
for dinners and meals or to have fun in
your life and it's not right or wrong it
depends what you want but if you're
wondering why you're not getting ahead
it's because it's not important enough
for you you know if you really want it
you're gonna make the time and dedicate
the time and that might mean you have to
make some sacrifices in your life and
cut things out that you might normally
want to do to give that up in the short
term not forever it's a short-term
temporary sacrifice so that you can take
a step back so you can take five or ten
steps forward in your life you know
there's people out there that I know you
might be listening say you don't
understand stuff and I got a crazy
schedule of work two jobs or I've got
you know kids that I got to take care of
and listen that might be true that might
be totally legitimate but again if
you're really committed you can still
find the way or make the time I can look
through your schedule and how you're
spending your time and we can eliminate
and cut out things that aren't really
moving the needle in your life or we
could do things a lot smarter right
maybe you could get a babysitter maybe
you can ask your parents to take care of
your kids or your grandparents or you
could take them to preschool or
something like that where there's other
moms there's other people that are even
busier than you I hate to say it they're
busier they've got more kids they've got
less time
never it is and they're still making the
time because it's a must for them so it
never comes down to time really it comes
down to is that you make the time for
whatever you're committed to in your
life and whatever is important for you
and you'll be created and find ways to
change around your schedule or be
smarter with the time that you do have
or be more efficient with it or more
productive with it that's really what it
comes down to is you can't let that stop
you instead you've got to find that
solution and be more efficient more
productive with the time that you do
have excuse number six I don't have the
money or I can't afford it I can't
afford to start my business I can't
afford to pursue my goals and dreams I
can't afford to invest in myself to get
the right knowledge to get the right
education listen my friends if you're
singing that to yourselves my response
to you would be that you can't afford
not to you can't afford not to invest in
yourself to start your business to
pursue your goals and dreams because the
cost and consequence is too great of you
staying where you are right now in your
life now if you ever catch yourself
saying I can't afford something you've
got to be very aware and cautious of
using those words in that language
because the moment you do the moment you
say I can't afford something you're
closing off your mind from any
possibility any solution any level of
resource fulness of you actually finding
a way to afford it
so you never want to use that limiting
language instead you want to ask
yourself how can I afford it because
when you ask yourself the question at
least now there is a possibility of you
being able to afford it of you being
able to find the answers because listen
it might be true that you don't have
much money right now but you do have
money if you're watching this right now
you do have money if you have a phone if
you have a computer you have assets that
are worth money okay and you're most
likely putting your money into food or
entertainment or to buy the latest
gadget or to go with your friends so
it's not that you don't have money
you've got to be very careful of telling
yourself that story of that excuse it
goes back to the time example that you
always make the money or you put the
money into things that are really
important for you that really matter for
you and at least when your resource when
you think about how you can come up with
the money or how you can afford
something there's ways that you can
increase your income countless ways and
then that can allow you to make more
and have more money to actually go for
it or you can actually cut out some
expenses you can limit some expenses or
make some sacrifices in your life I know
for me for example at one point in my
life had to move in with my friend and
live on his couch another point in my
life had to sell my car
another point my life I had to sell my
PlayStation and my video games and my TV
things that I I called the electronic
income reducing machine because the time
that you spend watching TV and playing
video games is actually taking away from
the future that you could have the
future success and money and wealth and
abundance you could have in your life
and so you have the money you can make
the money money is something you can
always earn there's jobs there's
opportunities out there there's ways you
can sell stuff you don't need there's
ways you can make more money or cut back
on expenses okay so the new belief
system that I want you to take on is
that you make the money or you have the
money for whatever you're truly
committed to because listen if I put a
gun to your head and I said do you
listen you've got to find a way to come
up with a thousand bucks by the end of
the week I can promise you you would
find a way because the consequence of me
putting a gun to your head and saying
you know I'm gonna shoot you if you
don't find a way that's a pretty severe
consequence so you're gonna tap into
your creativity your motivation your
drive your resourcefulness and I can
promise you you will find a way to come
up with the money so when something is a
must and resourceful all of those
excuses all of that dissipates and
disappears and we get to the truth the
truth will always set you free so don't
let money or time or any of those things
hold you back anymore save yourself you
know what if I really want to find a way
to come out the money I can and I will
excuse number seven of what stops people
is that I haven't done it before and
because I haven't done it I don't know
what to do I don't know how to begin I
don't know how to get started I don't
have the experience that's necessary for
me to achieve this goal in this dream
listen my friends if you wait till
you're competent or you have experience
to do something you'll never do anything
what allows you to do something is
knowing that you're capable it's having
the confidence in your capabilities your
abilities to figure it out and learn and
to get started and do it because listen
there's many things right now in your
life that you're capable of and you've
done that you've never done before
I mean think about
I mean whether that's learning a
language or learning how to walk you'd
never walk before you've never learned a
language before you never you know read
something or wrote something before you
never drove a card before I went on a
date before or pursue this hobby before
but you you didn't let that stop you you
know if you had let that story to stop
you that excuse I've never done this
before never driven a car before so
therefore I can do it then you would
never learn how to drive a car so you've
got to have the confidence in the belief
and your capabilities that you can
figure it out you can learn it and guess
what all the people that are successful
that have built incredible businesses or
built an incredible investment portfolio
or real estate or goals or dreams
whatever that might be they've never
done it before either
you could never done it before and they
didn't let that stop them they just
decided this is what I'm committed to
I'm gonna find the way or make the way I
will not be denied obstacles challenges
will show up of course but I'm gonna
learn from it I'm gonna grow from it you
know and whether it's starting an online
business you could say well I don't have
the background or the experience or the
knowledge or I don't have technical
skills or I'm not that good in front of
the computer I don't know the language I
don't know how to write whatever that
might be
don't let that stop you okay the
learning curve that's what makes makes
you learn and grow and become competent
and experienced everybody had to start
as a beginner everybody had to go
through that beginner stage where they
didn't know what they're doing they're
making mistakes there's kind of little
bit embarrassing or humiliating right
but as long as you can get past that
point and you you you have the courage
to endure that phase that's what leads
you to mastery and success and being
great at something so don't let that
stop you just start again learn as you
go excuse number eight I'm afraid of
taking a risk and I'm afraid of failing
we've all heard the saying no risk no
reward
and there's truth to that and the
reality is you pursuing your goals and
dreams and pursuing wealth and success
in your life there is a risk associated
with that you're probably gonna make
mistakes you're probably gonna have some
failures along the way because everyone
they know that's ever achieved success
we're done anything great has failed
they're probably going to lose some time
you're probably gonna lose some money
on the way but the same reality is the
same truth is that you staying where you
are right now in your life being
comfortable playing it safe being secure
security is this all an illusion because
there's tremendous risk and you not
taking action in your life there's risk
and you not pursuing your goals or not
creating financial wealth and freedom
and abundance in your life as well you
know you know what's incredibly risky is
having a job where you work for someone
else and your livelihood and security is
dependent on this boss that in any
moment they can fire you or let you go
and now you're in trouble you've got to
find a new way to be able to support
yourself and your family that's
incredibly risky or what's incredibly
risky is the fact that in any moment
there could be a recession the market
could change the economy can change the
government can make changes and just
like that hundreds of thousands or
millions of people could lose their jobs
as has happened back in 2008 and there's
going to be a recession and challenges
like that that do occur in the future
that if not prepared for it then our
whole livelihoods are gonna be at risk
or just as an example by you not growing
and evolving hundreds of thousands if
not millions of people are going to be
without work in the next few years
because of Technology right now there's
autonomous cars that are coming that a
lot of truck drivers and taxi drivers
nuber drivers they're not planning for
their future and preparing themselves
that they're gonna be without work or
that robotics is coming along and a lot
of factory workers are gonna be without
work because companies are always
looking for ways to do things more
efficiently and easily without having to
manage people and so now robotics and
artificial intelligence is gonna be
taking out and changing the world in so
many ways that if you're not growing
you're dying if you're not evolving and
adapting and thinking ahead about your
future you're gonna be left behind you
know what also is incredibly risky is
depending and expecting on the
government to support you when you
retire the fact this whole idea of a
pension plan of you putting money in and
the fact that you believe that the
government is going to take care of you
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