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hey this is stefan from

projectlifemastery.com and in this video

i want to share with you guys three

things three accomplishments that were

harder for me to personally achieve than

it was to make a million dollars that

accomplishment and that's not to

downplay how hard it is to make a

million dollars it's very challenging I

get that however I personally think when

I look back at my life and things I've

accomplished and what I had to overcome

there's actually three things that I

felt were a lot harder for me personally

in terms of the level of difficulty of

what I had to face and what I had to go

through to you know to accomplish and

overcome than it was to make a million

dollars and I thought this would be a

great topic for a video because many of

you guys might be interested in it to

know how does making something like a

million dollars compared to other goals

or other accomplishments that one might

have in their life and obviously I think

that they all translate to one another

you know if you can accomplish one thing

then the skills the characteristics the

habits the traits you take that with you

to accomplish other goals and

accomplishments in your life too but for

me I've been through a lot I've been

through a lot of challenges in my life

probably more than most probably more

than you watching this right now

and I actually think that was one of my

greatest gifts and advantages when it

came to building a business and making

money because though the things that I

went through were so much harder again

this is just my personal opinion is so

much harder for me that making a million

dollars became that much easier so let

me show you what they are and again this

is just my experience I might say

something here you know that was a

challenge for me it might not be a

challenge for you maybe you've already

got that mastered maybe you got that

down maybe it's not a challenge for you

whatsoever but for me personally it was

a very significant challenge that was a

lot that's pretty hard for me okay so

the first thing that was way harder for

me to achieve and to overcome than it

was to make a million dollars was

overcoming shyness social anxiety and

depression okay kind of lumping a few

together here you could separate them

but I kind of put them together that by

far was the hardest thing I ever had to

overcome and becoming someone that is

confident a good speaker social person

me speaking to you guys right now in

front of a camera is like a miraculous

thing and to me it might not be that

impressive to you but for me it is and

the people that knew me back then my

family my friends because I was not I

was like the least likely person to put

themselves on YouTube or to be a speaker

to be a coach and you know be able to

communicate in the way that I do um a

little bit of background guest you know

I went all throughout high school I was

shy you know as a kid I was very very

shy painfully shy people look at shyness

you know they kind of downplay it but

for those of you that are going through

have been through shyness and anxiety

and depression what I'm talking about

you guys could probably relate I mean I

remember when I was in school I used to

skip school just for the mere fact that

I was just so uncomfortable being around

other people that I didn't show up for

school at the time I remember like one

one in my grades it's like I miss like a

quarter of the year you know like in

terms of all the classes and stuff a

quarter of a I skipped and it was so

painful like even with my mom my family

I stood in the mornings I'd tell her I'm

not feeling good I'm sick and just as an

excuse not to go to school sometimes

even when I would go to school like my

mom would drop me off or I take the bus

I would walk home from school like I

wouldn't go to school or class I'd walk

home I'd wait for my mom to leave for

work so that I could just be home by

myself and play video games cuz that for

me was like a huge escape in my life I

remember when I did go to school you

know there's certain moments where like

the teacher would ask the students to

like to just to share their thoughts and

something or to read like a read

something like for example for reading

like a book in class you know like

they'd have each student kind of read a

paragraph out loud and I remember like

I'd have so much anxiety around that

that I would excuse myself to go to the

bathroom and then I wouldn't come back

like I was just so afraid of something

as simple as that when it came to giving

a presentation like in front of the

class I'd rather skip the class and not

show up and take the zero on that rather

than actually show up and do it because

I had so much anxiety around it

I was always known as the person that

didn't talk like you know emo and I'd be

around the group

and stuff I'd just be the quiet one

wouldn't say anything and I got bullied

a lot too when I was young because I was

like an easy target oftentimes when

there's such an easy target you don't

defend herself people attack you more

because it's a way for them to elevate

themselves and be more popular more

significant so I didn't have friends I

had a few friends at different times but

it wasn't really quality friendships I

had more online friends because online

was like my world I didn't have dates or

girlfriends or anything like that you

know people would often say you know to

me or say like do you even talk to even

speak and also I when I would speak it'd

be so quiet

I had like the quietest voice I'd mumble

a lot and I also had a lisp people just

make fun of me because I had a lisp well

when I was in high school so that was

that was the source of a lot of pain in

my life like significant pain I felt so

insecure so insignificant I ended up

failing science 10 barely you know like

a C student C - students barely

graduated high school as a result of

this it was just really really painful

and I think what came from that was also

depression where I felt helpless and the

only thing that made me feel good was

video games and computer games because

for me that was an escape from real life

you know like real life I was nobody I

was a loser I was someone that didn't

have friends like my life sucks and when

I played online games I was able to

escape all that and I was able to take

on a different character a different

identity a different person and when I

did I felt important I felt significant

I was very good at online games so for

example I used to play like this

Dungeons & Dragons type game online

where you you level up you get to a

certain level you develop skills you

join groups and guilds and clans and

stuff like that right all you gamers

probably know what I'm talking about but

uh for me it's like I was like the

powerful significant person in these

games I was a person that people looked

up to I was a person that I really

wanted to be in this online fantasy

world and it was all anonymous

the computer and I was I was like I felt

like I was an important significant

person online and so that was my escape

and what happened was like the more that

I got involved online and I was running

away from the real problem like the real

root cause and I was like medicating

myself and thankfully I'd never got into

drugs or alcohol or anything like that

but I can imagine it's the equivalent of

that or food or whatever it is people

use those things to medicate themselves

to escape and not have to address the

real root causes of their life and

what's really affecting them and making

them unhappy

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anyways so when I when I was 17 years

old it's like I decided to confront that

and I had an emotional breakdown and I

was like I have to change this area of

my life I don't want to continue living

my life this way it was a very painful

day because I looked at myself in the

mirror and I said no more I'll no longer

settle I got rid of all my games I I

actually was able to sell my online

accounts because they're actually worth

they had some value and I used to play

things like Diablo 2 and counter-strike

and some of these games and whatnot so I

actually was able to I got rid of them

all I even got rid of like my internet

and my TV anything that was like holding

me back in my life I felt and I really

tapped when to confront this area of

developing my confidence and my social

skills what I went through for that took

me so many years to actually be able to

make that change it was one of the most

challenging things I ever had to go

through and again you might be watching

this sort of listen to this think it's

not that big of a deal but again for me

it was a really challenging thing I had

to go through I did face a lot of my

fears my insecurities criticism because

I realized that when you're just quiet

and you don't say anything

people don't like you or dislike you

they just accept you it's just like oh

it's just but when you start to share

your opinion or speak up for yourself or

talk then you become vulnerable in some

way where other people can criticize you

they can put you down and now I had a

lot of fear around that and so I had to

face a lot of rejection

I had to face

a lot of that purposely I made that my

intent to face a lot of that so that I

could overcome this fear of criticism

and rejection in my life and some of the

things I did I ended up doing

Toastmasters which is they have groups

around the world where you can practice

public speaking in front of an audience

I did that for a few months before I got

so terrified I just couldn't keep going

I just said so much anxiety but it did

help did make a difference another thing

that I did was acting classes and improv

classes and not because I wanted to be

an actor or anything like that but it

was just like a way for me to get

outside my comfort zone and be more

excuse me be more confident so I

remember I signed up The Vancouver

School Board like they would put in

these evening classes one of them was

called acting for the terrified so his

acting classes specifically for people

that were terrified of acting and I

remember I signed up for like 12 classes

Riley because a 12 class program sign up

for 12 in advance and I went to like two

of them before I just could not keep

going like I just was so afraid to

continue and I lost that money but I did

get some benefit from it you know like

it did push me and it's like I really

had to face my fears but then I just had

so much anxiety I couldn't even go in

like I could even drive myself to the

place to actually go to these classes

and the same thing with improv classes -

very very hard for me so I won't i won't

blurb on and on about this but you guys

get it I mean this for me took me

several years was it was like a just

such a like a fearful thing that I had

to overcome compared to making money and

I'll talk about that like my journey and

process of making money million dollars

but compared to that like building an

online business or making money it was a

lot a lot of a more safe approach but

didn't oh I didn't have to deal with

such significant deep-rooted trauma

issues etc that I had to go through okay

so that would be the the one area that

took me such a long time to overcome but

one of my most proudest accomplishments

in my life to be honest with you guys

way more than anything else

it's not an accomplishment that's like

really valued in today's society but for

me it's like I value that so so much

because it changed my life my friends my

relationships in such a huge way the

second thing that was way harder for me

to accomplish and achieve than it was to

make a million dollars was learning how

to meet women and meet the opposite sex

so my biggest challenge that I had when

I was in high school and 17 years old

was like it wasn't I didn't care about

money at that point of my life you know

just was not a focus for me whatsoever

but for me at that point it was just

popularity and having friends and then

also having a girlfriend you know is

that that stage in my life where I

started to like girls and I started to

school and and whatever it is I'd see

girls that I liked and I was attracted

to you but I felt so helpless around

that it felt like I had no confidence

whatsoever to talk to them and meet them

and I really wanted that to have a

girlfriend and to have experiences with

women but I was just so terrified of

that and part of its you know the

anxiety and all that sort of stuff that

I had to go through but um you know for

me it was it was just it was just it's

just bad you know like I I often joke

that if there was like an attractive

girl right here next to me and she's

smiling and waving at me

that I would have no idea how to

actually start a conversation with her

and even once I started become more

social more comfortable talking to

people I was always the nice guy I'd

always get stuck in the friend zone you

know I was never had a girls attracted

to me before and even if a girl was

attracted to me I just had no idea how

what to do you know I was just so shy so

terrified the first time I actually lost

my virginity was actually when I was 16

though but I lost it when I was the

first time I ever drank alcohol there's

like at this party I'm not gonna go too

much into this story but so funny enough

I actually met this girl online from

these online games that I played and we

had like this big get-together and she

was actually from st. Louis Missouri in

the United States and I live in

Vancouver Canada and she was that year

older than me

and I was so shy and quiet and it's

first time ever had alcohol not even

remember

but it was the first time I lost my

virginity but the challenge that I had

is I felt so in love with this girl

and I was just like so mad and the

challenge I used to have it I could give

a very sensitive person and I would just

get very emotionally attached to a girl

that I'd meet or like having a crush and

they call it in the in you know the

dating community to call it one itis

right when you think that person is the

one right and that was kind of like what

I had to go through at that time but

that was very challenging for me because

I really was like in love with this girl

at least I thought it was but she didn't

feel the same way back and I remember

one time I was actually gonna go to

visit her in st. Louis Missouri and I

like my parents won't let me so I was

gonna run away from home right when I

was in high school things that you do

when you're a kid and I didn't have the

money for it and one thing I'm super

embarrassed about is I actually stole

some money from my mom so I can buy this

greyhound ticket and it was a

non-refundable ticket and I booked it

and it was like a three-day bus ride

like it's insane what I was gonna do to

see this girl because I was like so

desperate I was gonna take this

Greyhound to go down to st. Louis to see

her like a three-day trip I don't even

know how I was gonna eat or anything

like that but I was gonna go see her and

she agreed to it but then what happened

was like a few days before she just

stopped being responsive to me and just

like totally disappeared and I was

devastated because I had just bought

this ticket you know and I really was

looking forward to seeing her and

whatnot but I just remembered like I'm

sure you guys I've had this - when

you're young there are different points

in your life where it's like your

stomach like you just feel so much pain

like you like I just remember going to

work at that time and I just like I

couldn't even function like I was just

so devastated and if you guys have been

through like a breakup or something like

that you could probably relate to this

as well but I just remember the pain

that I had to go through around then

I've seven she got over in fact she was

actually a great motivator for me to

change my life as well but I can I can

share with you guys many moments like

that along my journey you know

first when I was around 18 years old

that's when I realized I had to learn

how to actually go and talked to women

and I actually met this group online of

the kind of called them pickup artists

like PU ways and I'm not associated with

that anyway because I got a bad negative

connotation to it but I ended up meeting

these people online and in my local city

and they would actually go out and meet

women and approach them on the street

and I was so blown away by that I was so

impressed I was like wow I have to learn

how to do it and I was so terrified to

do it and I remember the first time we

were inside the mall and I was watching

this one guy who was I was out with he

was talking a girl is a very social

person talking to everybody not just

gross guys as well but and he said okay

now it's your turn Stef and you've got

to go on approach a girl and I said no

no I can't I had every excuse not to I

said maybe next time I'm not ready for

it and he forced me to go and approach

this girl who was working at a kiosk and

he's like in and I figured well if I go

up to her and talk to her she can't

reject me because she has to be nice and

polite because it's her job and so he

told me what to say he said go up to

this girl just ask for her opinion on

this you know I think the opinion was

hey who do you think lies more men or

women right and use the the strategy

that they would use to meet women was

like you asked for a woman's opinion

because of women like to talk about

their opinions and whatnot so I was like

okay and I ended up doing us so

terrified I'd be shaking sweating you

know my face returned red but sure

enough I did it and what happened was I

gained a little bit of confidence from

that you know I ended up just going and

asked for opinion then I ran away after

that but uh you know it was a very

powerful thing what happens when you

face the fears and it's the scariest

thing at first but on the other side of

that is who you really are and you have

such an incredible feeling after and I

got really into that process and going

out to meet women and this was like a

huge shift from you know the life that I

had before playing games and stuff

because now I was going out several days

a week this became my life and

self-development of course is Raw's also

doing a lot of self devout reading books

and really immersing myself

because I separated myself from all the

online games and things like that I just

was putting all my time into self

development and growth and really

overcoming this area of my life and but

it was such a hard journey for me

because even as I got comfortable

talking to girls there's so many levels

of challenges that I had which was how

do you okay I can now talk to a girl but

how do i she have how do I create

attraction how do I actually have a

conversation how do I get her interested

in me and then even once you have

conversations then how do you how do you

actually get a phone number how do you

get a date and then I remember I used to

meet some girls and I would get their

phone number and I'd be too afraid to

even call them like I was just had so

much in his Hiatt even pick up the phone

and call them right this is even before

text messaging was popular and stuff -

sorry just so many levels and you know I

meet girls I really liked them and had

feelings for them and then they wouldn't

return my call right they wouldn't call

did flake out on me I remember even

having certain times where I would set

up a date with a girl and we'd meet at a

coffee shop for example and I'd go there

I'm like really looking forward to it so

excited to see this girl and I'm there

and she's not there and like an hour

goes by and she just decides not to show

up and flakes and I would like in some

cases I would go home crying like I'd be

in so many tears over this like it was

so traumatic for me and so hard for me

to to go through and everything and

that's why I eventually became like a

dating coach when I was in my early 20s

because I wanted help other guys with

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