hey this is stefan from
projectlifemastery.com and in this video
i'm gonna share with you five brutal
truths about life that no one wants to
admit number one is that you can't make
everyone happy it's a battle that you'll
never win no matter how hard you try or
what you do there's people out there you
just can't make happy and you're gonna
spend all this time trying to please
someone and make them happy even though
your intent is good you love them you
care about them they'll do everything
you possibly can but some people they
don't want to be happy they are attached
to the current state of living they love
being unhappy they don't want to give up
their stories their excuses their
limitations and so you can do everything
you possibly can and I know a lot of
people struggle with this I struggle
with this because I want to make
everyone happy
now I'm gonna please everyone I'm a
people pleaser but what I found is that
if you don't accept this and I say this
not to be negative but real that we can
accept this and it can actually empower
us in a lot of different ways because in
the pursuit of trying to make everyone
happy and try to please everyone else
oftentimes you can lose yourself you
don't take good care of you
and you got to accept the fact that not
everyone is gonna be happy and also the
fact that not everyone's gonna like you
I hate to say it but right now there's
people that don't like you there's
people that Judge you that criticize you
and worst of all they hate you and a lot
of times these are people that you might
know in your life and there are also
strangers and I hate to say it I mean
when you walk down the street in the
are judging you they're judging you
based on how you looked how you sound
what you say what you do right now
there's people that are judging me right
now as they watch this video every video
that I put out
we'll get dislikes because everyone has
their critics not everyone's gonna like
me and that's okay with it I'm totally
fine with that and part of it is just
you know people there's people out there
that are unhappy with themselves they
judge themselves they get jealous you
stir up emotional reactions people
perceive
things in different ways you know it's
there's people out there that are more
attractive than other people and so
therefore just from the fact that you're
an attractive person there's gonna be
people that will judge you and dislike
you for that the way that you dress you
know I see this time and time again
especially with women which is sad I
think women should empower people but
men as well but women will judge other
women based all she's wearing that or
she's doing this or doing that what
other people might be doing with their
life or maybe just you being more
successful or more popular or better at
something than someone else other people
would dislike you for it and even hate
you for it and no matter how hard you
try you can try to do everything you can
to please that person to make them happy
to do everything you can for them it's a
losing battle you're not going to be
able to make everyone like you and
you're not gonna be able to make
everyone happy and please everybody and
the sooner that you can accept that the
more free that you can be now my
approach to this is I accept it I own it
okay you know what I'm gonna put myself
out there I'm gonna do what I can I'm
gonna live my life I'm not gonna be held
back by this I'm not gonna limit myself
and my potential and who I am and be
something that I'm not so that I can try
to make everyone happy and that's what a
lot of people do they're not being
something that they're not they're not
congruent or aligned with who they
really are
because they put on a persona or
something like that to make everyone
else like them whereas some of that's
just comfortable with themselves it
doesn't matter what other people think
because what really matters is what you
think about you do you love and like
yourself when you look in the mirror
every day
do you like the reflection looking back
at you are you proud of yourself and
then also your friends or family today
the people that you like and love do
they like and love you back you know
does your Creator proud of you you know
as the saying goes only god can judge
you so as long as you love you're happy
with yourself you are a good person that
you feel your intent is good your
integrity you're honest that for me
that's what really matters and the most
successful people you know out
throughout history have critics
whether that's Jesus or especially
Donald Trump or you know there's people
that love them people hate them these
people celebrities the rock or you know
professional athletes LeBron James
Michael Jordan Teresa Steve Jobs all
these people that you might look up to
the Dali Lama Buddha all these figures
throughout history there's a lot of
people that dislike them and some of
it's based on their opinions or thoughts
that believe some of its just based on
how they look or their perception of
that but sooner you can accept it the
better my approach to it guys is I just
try to love everyone I don't judge
people for that I don't look down as
someone says oh that person because
oftentimes a lot of people the reason
why they criticize and they judge so
they can feel better about themselves
they're projecting their unhappiness or
they judge themselves much harsher than
anyone else so by putting someone else
down that's more significant than them
they make them feel insignificant so
that they can feel more significant
right it's kind of like the bully in
high school you know he's making fun of
people and stuff because he's insecure
he's unhappy with himself so you know
I'm gonna put down all these other
people and threaten them and so I can
feel powerful and popular and we get
that a million times ex online today but
what I do is I just love that person I
think that everyone has good in them the
most evil person there's a lot of evil
people out there but all everyone every
human being has some good that's my
belief everyone has a good intent
they've just been lost or been through a
lot of the things that I can't relate to
I can't judge anyone because I don't
know what they've been through in their
life to end up that way so I just try to
have love sympathy compassion send good
energy when I found is that by doing so
I actually attract a lot less negativity
in my life and I focus on the people
that do want to be in my life and that
wants you follow my content for example
or you know those people those are the
people that I put my time my attention
my focus to you and I'm not for everyone
no one's for everyone and then you just
move on you live your life and as long
as like I said you're happy with your
self the shadow that follows you you
like that shadow that's following you
for the rest of your life then that's
really what matters most number two
you will never be perfect
no matter how hard you try you'll never
be perfect in fact a lot of us we hold
ourselves to such a high standard
perfectionist mentality of being a
certain way that it ends up creating a
lot of suffering and I don't care who
you are and anyone out there no one's
perfect and yet we try to be perfect
we try to do everything we can to be
perfect and I think deep down inside it
part of it is we want to be loved we
want to be liked we're afraid from other
people their opinions or their thoughts
and how that's gonna affect us but this
the sooner that you realize you
recognize you know what I'm not gonna be
perfect at what I do or how I live my
life I'm gonna make mistakes everyone
does you know everyone has bad days
everyone has makes mistakes they do
stupid things no one's perfect and so I
understand that that you will fail you
will make mistakes and the earlier you
can embrace that and not try to resist
it you can try to try to control things
you just trust the process the more free
that you're gonna be and that's what
I've learned throughout my life I you
know I've at anytime I do something or
work on it you know I just accept the
fact you know what I'm not going to be
perfect with this there's gonna be
people that don't like it or you know
whatever it is but I always trying to
just take the approach of constant
growth and improvement you know if I do
something and it's not as greatest can
be at least the fact that I did it is
better than not doing it and and taking
some action is better than no action
whatsoever and I can improve as I as
time goes on now let's get better and
better and better and that's a constant
never-ending process of just trying to
improve trying to grow etc and I think a
lot of people are held back whether it's
a business or whatever it is they think
everything has to be perfect for them to
do it or complete it and for me I'm open
to all feedback criticism as long as
it's construction it's constructive
because that helps me grow and improve
so I don't try to fight it I try to
embrace it I think that's a great thing
so earlier that you can accept that the
more free the more empowered that you're
gonna be here's a good one this is
something a lot of people have a hard
time except accepting they can maybe
understand it logically but not
emotionally nothing external in the
external world around you is gonna make
you happy or fulfilled it's the truth
it's the reality the situation I don't
care how much money that you make I
don't care what person you attract in
your life I don't care if it's achieving
a certain body losing weight and having
your perfect body to Lamborghini to
traveling that whatever it might be a
beautiful home
whatever that is that will never make
you happy all it will really do is that
will give you short-term pleasure and
gratification but what happens is once
you achieve or you get something
external there's something called a law
familiarity which is that if you're
around anything long enough you take it
for granted and you get numb and used to
it so even though you might believe and
think in your mind that when I make
money when I achieve this when I do this
then I'm gonna be happy that's the
biggest lie that we tell ourselves
that's we're just totally deluded and
what happens is it actually starts at a
young age oftentimes I remember
wandering high school for example you
might think hey you know what when I get
my driver's license and that's gonna be
it my life is gonna be awesome and then
sure enough you get your driver's
license it's cool for a little while but
then now we all drive and it's something
that most people ten just take for
granted and then you think hey you know
what when I graduate high school like I
know that was a big one I hated high
school I was like you know and I
graduate that's what I'm gonna be happy
because do whatever I want each day sure
enough I did kind of awesome for a
little while but then you get used to it
you realize that that's not gonna make
you happy then you think hey you know
when I get a girlfriend when I get a
boyfriend when I get into a relationship
that's what I'm gonna really be happy
sure enough you do and then realize that
that's not it
and then you think hey you know when I
get a great job or hey when I graduate
universe
then that's gonna be it sure enough it's
not it hey when I make a certain amount
of money hey when I move out from my
parents home and get my own place when I
start my business or when I travel or
when I retire we're gonna have kids when
I get married we play this game with
ourselves if you if you still get caught
up in that lie
you're always deluding yourself
believing that something outside
yourself is gonna make you happy it's
not until you understand you recognize
the truth that there's nothing on the
outside that will make you happy it's
what's inside that happiness is
something that is created every single
day in every single moment of your life
and it's a choice it's something that
you have control over because as long as
you give it the control of that on
something external then you release and
relinquish your control over it and
you're creating this big standard or
rule for yourself of what you have to do
or what has to happen for you to be
happening instead of recognizing that
you could be happy right now in this
moment just by deciding to focus on what
you're grateful for focusing on what
you're happy about changing your
physiology smiling breathing meditating
doing something that does make you happy
right now in this moment you can be
happy you have that power you have that
control it's not anything outside of
yourself because even if it is like you
you know a car for example and it makes
you happy for a little while it's only
because you have the belief in your head
the rule that says that when I buy this
car therefore then I will be I will feel
happy now that's just you giving
yourself permission at that moment to
give yourself some happiness and joy so
it's not true guys the truth is that you
could be happy right now don't buy into
that and the earlier that you can decide
to be happy right now I love doing
rituals every day my morning ritual is a
time for me to be happy to focus on
gratitude and I the more that I've
achieved in my life the more that I've
valued it and how important it is more
than ever before because I realized that
anything else that I'm achieving are
moving towards isn't gonna do it for me
I'm doing it because it's fun
and it's great to makes a difference
and yeah you do get some pleasure from
it but more importantly I'm not looking
at those things to complete my life or
to make me happy right I focus on that
every day right now and you can't as
well
here's another brutal truth about life
that you're gonna die this is something
that people are afraid of they don't
even like to talk about it or bring it
up and I think it's an empowering thing
I think what really matters is what is
your beliefs about life and your beliefs
about death for me you know we're here
on this planet for a limited time we are
all gonna die we don't know when it's
going to happen it could happen today or
tomorrow it could happen next 10 years
it can happen hopefully as long
hopefully a long time from now but it's
a very sobering fact in reality what
happens is we live our lives pretending
like that day is never gonna come and
when you actually embrace it I actually
think it empowers you because it makes
you cherish your life that much more you
know one of my favorite quotes that I
actually have framed in my office it's
the quote that says someone should tell
us right at the start of our lives that
we're dying then we might live life to
the limit do what I say whatever you
want to do in your life do it now for
there are only so many tomorrows that
quote wakes me up someone should tell us
at the start of our lives that were
dying because when do people really
start to live so when they face death if
you had a near-death experience it would
wake you up on so many levels where you
would start to live your life to the
fullest doing everything you ever wanted
to do whether it's traveling or enjoying
your life or you know you see someone
you want to meet on the street you go
for it because you only have so much
time left you have to get real about
this opportunity this gift that you've
been given you can
take it for granted you got to cherish
it and savor it you're gonna seize the
moments the opportunities of your life
because life is too short guys life is
way too short I don't know about you but
I want the maximum experience of life if
we've been given this body and we have a
spirit and our spirit goes on but we're
here for a limited time I want to get
the most out of this I don't want to
waste my time my life with these
stories and excuses and
limitations and fears you know I want to
do what I can and be the best that I can
be and experience everything that life
has to offer and leave a legacy and make
a difference that's beyond myself that's
what motivates me you know I've got
another favorite thing I have in my
office
it's a plaque and it says it's what you
do in the dash of life what that means
is that when you go to a graveyard
there's a tombstone and it always says
the date that person was born - the date
that they passed away it's what you do
in that - that matters in life it's what
you're doing that - of your life from
when you're born - when you die that
will determine your legacy how you're
remembered what people will say about
you how people remember you and cherish
and acknowledge you and I don't want to
just exist and take from this role I
want to give something back while I'm
here I want to leave something with with
for the world that makes me better in
some way that's my mindset and I believe
I don't fear death because I know that
my belief my faith is that the spirit
goes on that that's everlasting that we
are not human beings having a spiritual
experience where spiritual beings having
a human experience and then we're just
temporarily on this body
on a fun little vacation and we got to
cherish and enjoy it what we can so the
sooner that you can embrace that reality
that you're gonna die I think it can
empower you don't run away don't be
afraid of that use that as motivation
leverage on yourself to live each day to
the fullest that's what I have to say
about that I think the last truth is
understanding that time is the most
valuable asset most people just waste
their life away that wastes time they
don't put any value on it whereas time
is the most valuable thing that you have
it's a depreciating asset that's
second-by-second you're losing the
opportunity of who you can become and
what you can do and what you can give
every minute every hour you have to
cherish it you got to utilize it don't
think don't get caught up and just
wasting away that time use the time that
you have for what matters to you what's
gonna bring meaning to your life that's
gonna make you happy that might be
spending time with friends and family it
might be making a difference it might be
growing a business it might be being
productive towards some goal that you
have that's a worthy goal that will help
you become more in the process and those
around you and help you give and
contribute more as well the moment I
realized this guys I stopped wasting
time on things that didn't matter you
know I like to still have fun of course
but I don't spend nearly as much time as
I used to playing video games or things
like that where I want to make sure that
everything I do has a purpose behind it
a positive purpose and if it is video
games or relaxing shell the purpose is
to relax myself and enjoy myself reward
myself in some way but today I spend
more of my time knowing how valuable it
is on creating and building and giving
and loving and doing things that always
bring a positive ROI in the future and
you know looking at the value of that
time is so valuable guys
you have to really make sure you utilize
it every day you know use every day of
your life because it's the little things
you do on a daily basis that will lead
to the bit you know the great months
that you're gonna have the great weeks
the right years you know the great year
great goals those are achieve all the
little things those little moments the
decisions you make and what you do and
so time is depreciating no one can get
more time I don't care if you're the
richest person on the world you can't
get more time we all have 24 hours in
the day 24/7 it's how you use it and you
got to be smart with it that's the key
and if that's the case then don't spend
that time and do what you hate
don't spend it doing anything you don't
enjoy don't do it ever doing anything
that isn't bringing you closer towards
who you want to be sometimes you might
have to sometimes you might have to have
that job that you don't like and do it
for a while but man for me I just knew
I'm not gonna spend the rest of my life
at a job that I hate like so many people
do and therefore I'm gonna do what
everything I can because time life is
too short I'm gonna build an online
business I'm gonna quit a job I'm gonna
live my life doing what I want to do
totally free doing what I love that's
how I want to live my life that's how I
want to spend the time of my life I
couldn't not imagine spending till I'm
65 years old doing something I don't
like every day or being in a
relationship I'm not happy with time is
too short
you're wasting their time and your time
the sooner you get to the truth the
reality you admit it the truth will set
you free so don't waste that cherish
that guys use it to your advantage
listen I want to thank you so much for
watching this video hopefully it can
inspire you
hopefully my truth here today can dispel
some limitations that might be holding
you back or maybe just be a good
reminder of what's really most important
in life and what you should focus on and
what you should do if you guys are
looking for some more from me I'm gonna
offer you a free training program for
those that want to build an online
business
just go to WWE my course of a link below
hey and if you want to build an
empowering ritual under life the one
that I preach about and talk about it's
doing something every day if your mind
body your spirit that's one of the most
valuable things you can do with your
time taking that time every day to
cherish to love yourself to be in a good
place because when you are that's
release what's gonna allow you to be
happy and enjoy life every single day
and I've got a great program called
morning ritual mastery and I'll link to
that as well or just go to ww-why ritual
mastery calm but hopefully you'll join
me in that program and create an
empowering ritual for your life and give
yourself that gift to be the best that
you can be thank you guys make sure you
always believe commit yourself commit
your life to mastery and I'll talk to
you guys again soon take care
you
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