hey everyone this is Stefan and I'm
Tatiana and you want to wish you a happy
Valentine's Day and Valentine's a week
this is part 3 of our video series on
relationships and for those of you that
by beautiful goddess Tatiana and she has
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thanks tan and this is my amazing
warrior Stefan he has a YouTube channel
called Project life mastery all about
mastering your life and every single
area so if you're really looking to take
your life to the next level you got to
follow him so we are doing these videos
together and again this is totally
different than what we have usually on
our channels but we are diving into
relationships to you tis the season and
the events of Valentine's Day and we
want to share this with you because we
feel like we have learned a lot from
awesome mentors and books and we've
really taken our relationship to the
next level where we were just so in love
and passionate and it just never dies it
keeps growing so if we can you know
share something that's going to help one
person out there then we're more than
happy to do that yeah so today's video
we're going to dive into how to create
passion in relationship which is
something a lot of relationships they
maybe have for a little while but it
doesn't really last we're going to talk
about that and this is part 3 of our
video series the first one we won what
we did is how to attract the right
partner the second one that we did was
on how to create an amazing relationship
that laughs and then we're going to do
another video too after this as well but
there will be a link somewhere to the
playlist that we'll have so if you
missed the other videos make sure that
you check them out and can definitely
benefit from those ones too but in terms
of passion you know passion is something
that every relationship needs to have
you know a lot of relationships they
have love they have a great connection
they have a great friendship but maybe
they're missing that excitement that
juice that interview that spark that
polarity amongst two people or my
passion is really what creates that
attraction in the relationship and it
can kind of tell
up and down but there are certain things
that you can do to to amplify it to
create more cash and create more
excitement and some of the things we're
going to talk about you know one of them
is understanding that in relationship
there's there's two different energies
at play okay there's a masculine energy
and then there's a feminine energy okay
and really I wanted to understand that
men and women have both energies within
them okay so for me I'm more dominantly
masculine but I also have a feminine
energy within myself too she's more
predominantly feminine but she also has
a bit of a masculine energy inside
herself as well so whether they're in a
you know straight or gay relationship
again same thing is two women or two men
that are together one of them pre
dominantly masculine the other one
feminine that's called polarity and in a
relationship to have passion to have
attraction there has to be a positive
and a negative charge so if you have two
magnets you know positive negative
charge to go together they have to have
that polarity because if you take two if
we're both in a masculine state and
masculine they're energy we're going to
repel each other
and that's one thing that and that's one
thing they can often happen sometimes
when you're spending so much time with
your partner that you take on the same
energy or you know sometimes you might
both be in a feminine energy and that
can create that you know depolarize the
relationship in that way and so
understating this is really one of the
most important things is to having that
passion that attraction in the
relationship yeah and also just to note
that you know for me I'm more of my
feminine but there's women who are
straight who can be more in their
masculine just because you're more in
your masculine doesn't mean that you're
gay or bisexual or whatever it can still
mean that you are straight so I can you
know I could be a person that's more in
my masculine for the majority of time
but I could still be attractive to men
so just knowing that there's different
variety to these things it's not just
you know you're either and you're coming
in your mouth
and so it's just important to know when
you're in your masculine and when you're
in your feminine so if we establish now
that he's more than is masculine 70% of
the time and 30% of the time you're in
your feminine is that fair to say and
I'm we're in my 7 and 70% of the time
and more of my masculine 30% of times
it's good to know when that is and
sometimes that's going to switch so for
me I can get into my masculine self when
I'm doing business and that that's a
good thing
I need that because the masculine side
is very authoritative if it takes action
you know it's very precise and let's get
things done and that's my masculine
state and that's what helped me so much
with during my business and helping it
grow quickly and so when I am working on
my business I'm very masculine I don't
look like a girly girl I don't act like
when I'm not you know cute and Turkey
and bubbly like I'm not like that at all
and that's totally cool
I need that it's not right or wrong
because both energies you need to have
inner self you know there's a side of
myself that's more feminine you know a
feminine side that's carrying that soft
is sensitive and I think it's important
to understand the qualities of the two
energies so masculine is very focused
very direct you know taking massive
action breaking through determines the
spices you know there's certain
qualities like that that are master
master that can always you know put it
as being the flag pole whereas the
feminine is the flag you know it's kind
of flowing a feminist eminent energy is
flowing it it's more in the moments
where spontaneous it's free it's um you
know justjust open it is surrendering
its its expression its it's all these
different things and and when you you
know certain parts of your life you
might have to ask access your masculine
energy more or your feminine energy more
than others and that's totally fine but
in terms of when you're with your
partner in the relationship you've got
to have polarity of one being masculine
one being feminine right or maybe her
being more in master
me being in the feminine mode right can
work either way and that and having that
as opposed to you know she's you know
we're both in that masculine mode we're
both you know trying to make decisions
or both you know in that certain
energies in this may be a conflict yeah
totally yeah so it's really important to
establish to just know you know
consciously okay I'm in my feminine mode
or I'm in the masculine mode and once
you know that then you can assess the
situation so when I'm at work I want to
be in my masculine mode if I'm in my
feminine I don't tend to get as much
done which just me but when I'm with him
I need to put myself into that feminine
mode because that's what's attractive
for him he likes the feminine side of he
likes the flowy and the ambiance and the
the gracefulness and the silliness and
the you know just all these feminine
qualities of what he'd like so I want to
make sure that and also that's what I
like so when I list him I want to put
myself into that mode so what's really
important is to not just expect yourself
to switch into that mode and if
oftentimes when you do have a business
or you're coming from a very stressful
job as a woman if you're more in your
masculine mode at your job you know
extreme example is a prison guard if
you're a prison guard at work and you
have a straight relationship and you
come home you're still going to be in
that masculine zone so unless you're
your partner is in the feminine zone
then you're going to switch it to being
in your feminine zone and it doesn't
happen so easily as you would think
so before I had this knowledge I found
that when I started a business you know
there's something a little bit different
about me and it kind of changed things a
little bit in the relationship but now
that I have this knowledge of knowing
that I actually have to switch into my
feminine role I now can take actions
necessary to do that so what I have to
do is I have to find activities that are
going to put me in a southern state so
whether that's dancing having some
cocktails with a girlfriend
chatting going to a fitness class going
to a dance
taking a bath with some rose petals in
nature being in nature all those
negative ions just whatever it takes to
put me in that feminine role I will do
that 30 minutes before I come home so if
I'm coming to hang out we live
separately which is something that we're
going to touch on too so when I am
coming to visit him or he's coming to
see me I'm going to take some time to
get myself into that feminine state so
for me what I like to do usually is I
like to put some music on and just like
do my hair and makeup and you know what
I'm in my business mom and masculine
mode I don't care about how I look I
don't care my hair is messy my makeups
not on I go walk every right I'll care
to season but when I'm in my feminine
version then I care and I want to look
good for him and I want to do this so it
puts me in that feminine state so I get
that momentum going and by the time I
open the door I just see him I am just I
have the energy and I'm just excited and
it works well it's a good neck yeah and
you know when it comes to men I mean
well I think the best way to get into
that mode is for men being around other
masculine men or women being around
other feminine women being around that
energy and I think it's important for
men and women to have that time with one
another you know for men you know for me
with some you know sometimes as with my
friends were playing poker or watching
sports or watching UFC we're you know
we're playing sports together you go to
the gym together we you know do things
together I could do on my own or with
friends but that puts me more in that
masculine state and that masculine
energy that creates that polarity to
spark between us
right but you know when we get together
and again if you spend so much time with
the other person is nothing wrong with
that but what will happen is that you'll
depolarize if you take two magnets and
you know you put them together they'll
eventually depolarize to take the two
maybe if you put them you know far apart
then they're not going to magnetize in
any way there's got to be like a you
know just the right distance to maybe
it's like this works like you're just
feeling that pull and imagine one made
me here one here they're feeling the
pull they're trying to attract each
other again if they're always like this
the depolarizes if
too far apart then there's no there's no
gravity that's no magnetic pole okay so
you know also for me not being in
business being on my purpose you know
being decisive you know things like that
they put me in that masculine state and
so you know we find when we when we come
together you know again whether you live
with your partner or not you still got
to take that time apart you still going
to have your alone time - we call it
polarity time to recharge ourselves and
that way when you do get together it's
powerful totally and and something good
to do also for men and women is to just
wash it away
so whatever stresses you had at work you
know whatever issues you had during your
workday when you get home get home
without those burdens you can talk about
it later but when you enter the door you
want to enter and just you know maybe
maybe you don't see your partner soon as
you enter maybe you can go have a shower
and literally wash it away and then when
you come out you're refreshed you can
have a good entrance you can connect and
then later in the day maybe dinner time
or whatever you can talk about those
things so you can have you know it's not
like you're coming and you're reacting
reacting from work and then you want to
dump it on your partner you don't want
to do that either so be mindful of what
you're bringing back yeah there's three
things they'll give you much more
practical tips three things that a man
or a masculine energy can do is three
things that a feminine energy can do to
be more feminine and more masculine it's
called PCP and ice okay so P CTP is
present
okay presence means that you're just
totally present in the moment okay if
I'm with her making sure that I give her
full presence I'm looking deep in her
eyes and I'm not thinking about anything
else because women can tell you know the
other person can tell if I'm thinking
about something else right if I've got
my mind on work or I'm thinking about
whatever I've got one eye on the TV
watching the game and then one one eye
on her that's not presence presence is
full undivided attention and devotion to
your partner okay so that the first key
is presence okay giving your partner
presence that brings out your masculine
and it also what it does is it brings
term or disseminate state to the see is
claim claim plane has an energy to it of
like your mind you know I'm going to
take you or you know this is that energy
where you know as a man is it's kind of
like that that dominant energy not see
is that to have your majesty
come here yeah you're mine mm-hm yeah
it's not in a domineering way or
anything like that you know everything
is we're talking about a love and
positive intention for your partner but
having that claim where maybe just grab
her or your holder tightly or you hug
hug up women lot of hugs yeah you you
know you put them against the wall or
you you know take them to the bed or you
leave them somewhere it's that level of
energy and claim what that does for a
feminine is it puts Kurds or more of a
feminine energy okay and then the other
P is penetration penetration is you're
inside the partner so when I'm with her
I'm not again focused on myself I'm not
focused on anything else I'm actually
feeling what she's feeling I'm feeling
every part of herself I'm killing her or
soul or spirit or heart and you know I'm
imagining that I'm inside that person
and what that does is it it creates that
deeper connection to you but also brings
out the feminine and that's where you
get to close-knit and in that you don't
get closer than that right it's just
that bond connection yeah so the ice or
the feminine is invitation okay
invitation surrender and expression you
want to show those arms so with
invitation you want to make sure that
you know you're inviting the man to come
to you you can do this through your
vibrancy you know you know how you
present yourself are you open are you
closed off those I'm coming like this
and I'm just sitting like this I'm not
very inviting you don't want to come to
me because you don't know what's going
on with me I'm attack right so with
invitation you want to be inviting from
the heart so you want to open yourself
up you want to be inviting with the way
that you're looking at the person you
know
give them the inciting eyes whatever
that might be for you and just by the
way it makes me just kind of gravitate
more towards Orin as you know the guys
out there you know you know if you can
go to a bar or you see a woman that
she's closed off that's not very
attractive you're not going to want it
doesn't matter how attractive physically
the person is but if they're not
inviting open you know and opening
themselves then you're not going to feel
pulled towards it so when I find what
she is more inviting I'm more present
the third it brings out more presence
frames of the opposite and also just you
know literally inviting yourself putting
yourself wrapping your arms around him
and really giving him that connection
because you know sometimes women you're
so hard on the man you know we're just
like I have to come to me
yes we work for this he's got to do all
this stuff check check check check check
Oh in this one check box though see you
later you know if you got you can't do
that remember it's about you being in
the relationship so you know it's good
to sometimes you can make the first move
even if he isn't doing those things you
can you can be inviting and initiate
that and see what comes out of that it
is a surrender surrender well we know
what surrendering is right but it's
basically like you just want him to take
you so when he's claiming you you
surrender you let that happen you feel
that level of masculinity and feminine
to be combined and the masculine takes
the feminine right yeah and a lot of you
know uh you know the feminine also you
know if you're closed off and you have
barriers and walls and you know you're
you're closed off to his claim or
whatever it is and again that's knocking
it that's not going to invite that claim
in any way so surrendering is trusting
trusting your partner servant allowing
them just totally surrender to and
trusting them that they're going to love
you they're going to take care of you
they're going to give to you they're
going to ravish you or whatever it is
just totally star rendering to them
instead of trying to always be closed
off and protecting all about opening up
more your partner that's what the
feminine is adult yeah and it's the idea
of surrendering you know that that word
is so powerful so just to be able to
surrender to someone
that gives that person a lot of power
you know it's not that it's not a bad
things not dominating me but it's just I
love you so much that I'm surrendering
to you I'm straining my soul my heart
everything to you and that that's a big
gift on its own and and yeah just making
sure that you don't make it so hard all
the time you know so I think that that's
a big thing too it's just you know
getting in your feminine or your
masculine whatever you want to be in and
then just inviting and then surrendering
and learning to make that happen
naturally yeah you want to talk about
expression expression so expression can
be a variety of things but expression
mainly is you want to express your
emotions men do not think like women if
you haven't figured this out yet you are
far behind my dear because men they
don't have the same mind at all women
think that oh he's going because he has
to know this and you think that they're
mind-readers but they're far from it so
men they're very direct and they say
what they mean and her women they never
say what they mean so you know with a
woman you have to be expressive you have
to tell him you know what it is that you
want and express how you feel I mean so
sometimes when a couple is making love
the woman just doesn't express herself
doesn't make any sound it's quiet and
the guys like okay vibrating her and she
happy and the girls just like not making
any noise and that's not a good thing
and there's a lot of reasons why women
are like that so there's no way that we
can blame women right but one and we we
need to learn to just express ourself
more and saying yes I do like this maybe
do a little bit this way oh I like it
when you do that you know certain things
and then also just say expressing
vocally just you know expressing your
love and telling him giving them words
of affirmation all these certain all
these things really add spice and flavor
and ignite that the relationship and
and what are we and when a woman free
like that she's expressing she's
surrendering she's open as a masculine
it brings more you know you want to go
deeper with that person you want to you
know penetrate even more you want to
love more you want to claim more because
they're totally opening themselves up to
you and by the way it can also be the
other way around yeah like I said so if
she the times where she's in the
masculine and I'm surrendering
you know I'm allowing her to be in
charge and to claim me and whatever it
is and so it's not a man/woman thing you
know it works either way with either
energies but you know understanding this
dynamic is important you know so this is
the foundation of what creates
attraction and passionate relationship
and also I think a lot of women who are
watching this may think okay well I
understand actually expressive but what
if I don't feel it and that's something
that I was struggling with for a bit but
you know maybe I'm not into them if
you're not feeling it but you know what
just try just just try the expressive
even if you fake it until you make it
and not I'm not talking about that but
just really being vocal and just
expressing yourself in whatever way cuz
eventually if you're going to get into
that momentum and it sounds good become
more natural is going to feel better
it's gonna you're really going to keep
things up trust me just try it so if we
were to add maybe a few other things you
can do to create more passion I think we
talked before about having rituals in
relationship how rituals are really
important and we talked about the
importance of variety too and and put
you out to be conscious of that in the
relationship and so you know whether
it's a date night
you know once a week or you know we have
done certain things where you know one
part or surprises the other partner and
then of course the more spontaneous it
can be the better but you know really
adding in that varieties of the
relationship and and I think one thing
that's been beneficial for us is we're
not nightclub people by any means like
we don't you know we're actually pretty
early birds like you get tired at like
11 o'clock 10:00 11:00 o'clock but what
we do is we actually consciously do go
out to certain environments like that
because it creates a different energy
a relationship because you know she gets
to get ready and get dressed up and I
going to get ready and everything and
then we go out for a nice dinner or we
go to a bar or club and we dance and and
it creates more passion in the
relationship and you know things like
that whether it's nightclubs or dancing
or travel or whatever it might be you've
got to be creative with it but having
those things on a regular basis are
really important for creating that
passion and excitement because if every
night you know you're just watching
Netflix together you're watching the
shows then again what's going to happen
is the passion is going to go it's going
to go down go down - yeah I mean it can
be great for a while but there's a point
where it just becomes less attractive
and I know when we go on our date nights
and we go out like I just have so much
attraction to him and it's all part of
the ambience of where we are the setting
it's what we're doing but it's also just
you know when we go out we prepare
ourselves a week in advance to say okay
this is the day we'll mark it on your
calendar we're going on a date night and
just the excitement - the anticipation
of that and when we go it's just it's
fun we don't talk about work we don't
talk about anything that you know
businessí
we just talk about fun things a
relationship and we just went loose you
know what happens happens and you know
like you said we're not nightclub people
but we just have fun we just make makes
fools of ourselves whatever you know
it's just getting out of your pattern
yeah yeah so is there anything else
would ask Graham oh there's a lot we can
talk about but you need to wrap this up
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