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How To Overcome Adversity



hey guys Stefan here from project life
mastery comm done little video message I
want to share with you today about
dealing with adversity you know I got
hit hard today this morning with some
adversity in my life that wasn't
expecting and that's always how it
happens that wasn't prepared for it
my business is got effect it really is
hurting me financially right now and
been having this anxiety my stomach all
day and I thought you know I'm making a
little video blog out of this and kind
of share what I'm going through and some
of the lessons that have been able to
pull from this and just kind of my
thought process my way of thinking and
share that with you guys maybe you guys
can benefit from it as well because
everyone everyone on this planet is
gonna deal with adversity I don't care
how invincible you think you are
you know everyone experiences some sort
of pain or adversity or something that's
gonna happen that's gonna hit you hard
and you're not gonna expect it you're
not gonna know what to do maybe some
happens in the economy a recession or
your business or you break up you know
in a relationship or something happens
to your health or something that you
love and they're close to dies you know
what do you what the do you do when
it happens you deal with that and I'm
gonna go a bit into that but before I do
I've got some exciting news just kind of
switch gears for a moment here I'm about
to leave in about a half hour and the
only to South America for a little trip
for about two to three months it's a
goal that I've had and set for myself
earlier this year and I love that I love
traveling I love getting out of my
comfort zone experience in the world
it's just a huge passion that I have and
I'm gonna first go to Seattle spend a
day there then I'm going to Miami I'm
spent a day there starting off the trip
in Panama the only Colombia I just gonna
make my way down south through South
America
November 30th going to Palm Springs
California for the Tony Robbins date
with destiny event which is a week-long
in our that also another rule of mines
I'm not really wanting to do for a while
announced I can't wait to do that and
then we spin the rest of December
probably in California it's a great
place I'd love it there and you know
throughout this whole process this whole
journey I'm really excited because I get
a blog with you guys I'm gonna share the
experience is I'm gonna shoot some
videos and just kind of share the
lessons and it's gonna insights and I'm
going through as I have been but just
kind of doing it all over the world we
should make it a lot more interesting so
that's coming up but going back to the
University no today I got hit hard
something happen to my business didn't
see it comin wasn't prepared for it
really hurt and
and dealt with the similar adversity
earlier this year back in April and as
doing really well financially I had
multiple businesses that I was running I
had all this passive income coming in
and life is great and obstet goals and
I'm I'm just destroying all the
goals that I have and set for myself and
I'm planning on doing this going here
and buying this and I was really
exciting time it's really incredible
and sure enough got hit by adversity
something that was outside of my control
hit me hard remember that happens
most people you know they have a society
or the stressed out or there's
uncertainty with that and you know right
in that moment you've got to
decide what you're gonna do and there's
really two decisions that you can make
you know the first one is these be a
victim you can say why me feel sorry for
yourself
sit in the corner and feel depressed on
the couch not do anything you know just
eat food and get depressed and watch TV
and this find ways to distract yourself
in the pain that you're going through
and I think that's what a lot of people
do do I've done that as well and it's
unfortunate because there is a
consequence to that you know you a year
from now five years ten years from now
you're gonna be in the same place you're
gonna be fat depressed and nothing that
ever gets any better by just sitting
around and doing nothing and so the
other option which is my candidly the
only option is using whatever life gives
you an understanding that every
experience you go through as a gift it's
something that was meant to happen and I
know what that might sound little weird
or strange or little airy-fairy will out
there whatever and then just help me get
through the adversity in my life has
always been certain beliefs that I've
had and my spirituality it's really
important to name just having a belief
that everything happens for a reason
everything every experience that you go
through is meant to happen and isn't it
to serve you in some way and then you're
guided and that whatever you're going
through right now it's not permanent you
know nothing in life is permanent
no problem is so for pervasive
that you
and overcome the only thing is
permanence or soul and so part of the
belief that I have is I always tell
myself this too shall pass this too
shall pass
and sure enough it always does
you know there's certain cycles that we
go through there's like different
seasons of life and maybe you're going
through like a winter or a hard time or
whatever but eventually it goes away and
you'll come out of it and if you can
kind of have that fate and just see keep
your eye on the horizon and it's not get
caught up a little roadblock stuff
allowed for me little obstacles that are
right in front of you and just you keep
going once you get on the other
side there is a light there is a light
it's a good saying if you're going
through hell keep going and I kind of
remind myself of that as well and so the
other option is just to learn from the
experience grow from it
understand this experience this Azuki
effort it's gonna help you grow and
expand who you are and it's giving you
valuable lessons and whatever
life throws at you understand that life
doesn't happen to you life happens for
you and if you really believe that it
can free your life up in so many ways I
know it has for me and always to look
for the good in every situation whatever
life gives you look for the good find
the empowering meaning of it one one
book that really inspires me is called
man's search for meaning by Viktor
Frankl and he's a guy that was locked
away in a Nazi concentration camp and
he's going through pain and suffering
and people a lot of people just give up
give up hope they like this I'm
gonna die anyways and other people would
make it you know to survive through and
they had a different attitude outlook
and he was a psychiatrist he actually
studied the mindset at different people
when he found the people that were able
to overcome the pain and the suffering
and the adversity that they were going
through is they
found a purpose in their suffering they
found an empowering meaning they used
whatever like was giving them in some
way to make themselves better and grow
and and they saw a compelling future
that of some way of how it can be better
which i think is an important piece
because without in a compelling future
and seeing things that what you want to
see it then what most people do is they
just sit around they have no reason to
do anything they have no reason to you
know get themselves up in the morning
and off the couch and take an action
towards where they want to go you know
so that really is the only option the
only thing you can do is just take
action pick yourself up start asking
yourself questions like how can I learn
from this what's great about this how
can I use this how can I turn this
around how can I use this experience to
grow and improve myself in some way and
be able to give to others help and serve
others at a higher level and you know
it's really interesting because I
everyone's meant to fail you know I
think you know norman vincent peale says
that problems are a sign of life and at
the only people without problems are
people that live in a cemetery right so
you better pray to God that you
have problems and problems are what make
us grow you know people think that never
supposed to have any problems you know
like life doesn't work that way you know
the metaphor I always use is is life is
like going to the gym or something you
know you you make all the growth not by
doing what's easy now you can lift a
dumbbell or whatever for ten pounds and
just kind of do bicep curls if you need
a thousand columns you're not going to
grow it and I think it's stronger what
makes you stronger it's when you
go to failure you push yourself beyond
what you thought you could do you get to
that point where you got nothing left
and you just hit that that moment of
failure that's when you roll back and
you become stronger and crawl those and
challenges in life are really the same
thing there are opportunities for us to
grow
and become better and you know I think
you know I'm a young guy and everything
and I've been through adversity and
failures and challenges probably a lot
more than most is because that generally
happens when you take certain risks and
you write businesses and you know all
that kind of stuff but all those
experiences have made me who I am today
and they made me stronger better it
honestly made me be able to fulfill my
purpose and serve you guys some way just
with the little video blog stuff put
together here and everything because
I've always learned a lot more than us
from those failures than I ever had for
maybe your successes that I've had in my
life so they really aligned me with my
purpose and I know that by going through
this overcoming this experience I'll be
able to serve and help people at a
higher level I'll have to be able to
attract more success in my life and I
would just thank God I'm darling
and I'm like thank you that this is
happening now because there's a reason
this is happening now for me and right
now it's it's it's interesting because
when you're young they're meant to fail
you're meant to go through adversity and
challenges grow because you've got
nothing to lose what the do
I have to lose it at this point I don't
have you know a family and a wife kids
and all that kind of stuff right res as
you get older in life in or in 40s and
50s and a later stage in life there's a
lot more riding on and there's a lot
more at stake and I'd rather feel how I
learn now that have to go through these
experiences later in my life and deal
with I'm gonna have a family and all
that kind of stuff I really view this as
an experience an opportunity to prepare
myself this is my training if
you've seen a peaceful warrior which is
a great movie it's one scene where Dan
Millman it's like he's saying to
socrates is like you know I went to an
accident and you know I can't do this
because of this and Socrates says to him
that the accident was your easier
training the accident that you've been
through the thing that you're trying to
resist and fighting the thing that you
think is so horrible this problem or
challenge you're going through is the
training that
help helping you grow and fulfill your
potential in life and I really believe
that God you know that your creator the
universe whatever you want to call it is
the best personal trainer in the world
in the universe because a great trainer
when you got nothing left
they tell you to go and give two
or three more and you're like holy
two or three more I can't even do one
more and you end up getting more out of
yourself you grow and you become
stronger and you become better and it's
that progress which really gives you a
sense of fulfillment in life it makes
you happy
fills you up is if you're not growing
you're dying right you know so I think
if you can find the empowering meaning
change the way you look at your
challenges in life adversity the
problems that are going through it would
give you a different perspective and
sometimes your worst days the biggest
challenges you've been through the worst
things have happened to you I've been
their best and I know I can say that for
myself and I look back some of the
challenges in the person I went through
over the last five or ten years and
those really the best moments in my life
because they got me to take action they
motivated me in some way they got me to
learn and improve myself and grow and I
wouldn't be doing what I do now if it
wasn't for all those experiences so I'm
grateful for it I'm proud of it and
you're going through right now if you're
going through a hard time I understand
that you know a year from now five ten
years from now you're gonna look back at
this moment and you're gonna laugh and
now you're gonna be grateful for this
moment gonna understand and see the
reason of why I actually have it and see
how it made me like that so I hope this
helps you in some way it's just my
thought process what I'm going through
right now and I will overcome it you
know I always do and I just keep my
faith
and I hope that this message can help
you in some way if you're going through
adversity or a hard time or challenge
right now you know hopefully I give you
some insight some different way of
thinking about your life your challenges
in life and you know I know that if you
actually apply what I just said it was
kind of change we think about things
that you to come out and see the light
and go and come over the other side
victorious so thanks for watching guys
I like you guys updated on my travels
and I'll talk to you soon

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