How To STOP Being Lazy [3 Simple Steps] #Best Education Page #Online Earning

hey what's up life masters this is

Stefan James from project life mastery

to day I'm going to share with you how

to stop being lazy in your life and

really how to get yourself and towards

taking massive action towards the goals

the dreams and the vision that you have

for your life I want to make sure that

you're more productive than you ever

have before and I'm gonna share with you

three strategies three techniques that

you can apply that are practical right

after this video that can get you into

action and make sure that you overcome

being lazy in your life in fact one of

them one of these strategies I'm going

to do with you right here while I have

your attention as you're watching and

listening because I want to make sure

that you leave this video doing the

things that you know you should do but

you're not doing them the things that

you're procrastinating on now

I'm very familiar with laziness because

I used to be lazy for most of my life to

give you some background when I was in

high school I used to skip school a lot

really did my homework rarely studied

hated school I used to be addicted to

video games so I just spent all my time

playing video games all day on my

playstation or on my computer I used to

watch a lot of TV a lot of movies and I

was just looking for a life of comforts

and by the way comfort is the enemy of

execution comfort is the enemy of a

great life because as long as you are

comfortable you're not going to grow if

you're not growing you're dying if

you're not growing you're not going to

feel happy so we need to grow and evolve

and that's really what you know what

action allows you to do by taking action

allows you to make progress in your life

rather than just sitting around all day

and being lazy most often how do you

feel about yourself when you're sitting

around all day when you're not doing the

things you know you should do most often

your self-esteem does it go up or does

it go down most often goes down because

you feel guilty you feel like you're not

making a progress that you want to make

you're not doing the things for your

body your health your relationships your

career your finances that are really

meaningful for you and so most often

there's a disconnect there's an inner

conflict that people have that they have

the desires and goals but they're not

doing it so let me share a few the first

solution to this okay the first thing

that I believe that everybody needs if

you want to transform yourself and being

lazy to being productive because by the

way I'm no longer lazy in my life I'm

the opposite of it I've definitely

solved that problem in my life

because now today I mean I've achieved

so much of my life and I don't want to

go into success or anything like that

but I've done pretty well I'm proud of

myself but I've done some incredible

things I've done fitness competitions

and I've made millions of dollars online

it built a great business that I'm proud

of and not saying that to impress anyone

and saying it cuz it impresses me I'm

proud of myself for that but I just want

to demonstrate for you that you can

change you know and I'm gonna show you

some of the things that I did that made

me change and help me to be productive

and taking action so number one the

first solution to this is you've got to

have a vision and goals that excite you

you've got to have a vision that's

that's so compelling for you and your

life that you're so excited for you you

you associate so much pleasure to this

vision this life that you could have

that's a dream that you link pleasure to

it and that pulls you towards it it's

almost like it's effortless because

you're being pulled rather than pushing

yourself to do things when you don't

really know why you're doing it or what

you're doing it for you know so often

people you know I remember for me when I

was in school for example I was lazy

because I didn't know what the purpose

of taking action was I'm doing my

homework of going to school I didn't

have a why didn't have a purpose for

doing it and if you don't have a purpose

for doing it you don't understand the

benefit that it can give you and your

link and pain to it then you're not

gonna follow through so procrastination

is when you link pain to doing the thing

that you know you should do and you're

associating pleasure to not doing it

pleasure just playing video games and

watching movies and you know screwing

around and all that so the first

strategy the first thing you need is a

vision okay when was the last time that

you really just spent a few hours and

you maybe journal that went out in

nature and you just really ask yourself

what do I want from my life what is the

vision that I have for my life if I

could have my life any way that I want

it to be what would that be you know you

really got to be like a kid because if

you ask a kid what they want to be when

they grow up or what they want for their

life they have no problem telling you

what that is you know they're gonna tell

you that they want to be an astronaut

that they want to be a firefighter that

they want to be an engineer or a

scientist or the president or whatever

that is they don't have those

limitations that most often we get as we

get older in life as you get older as an

adult and you've experienced some pain

and you've had some disappointments that

you know the unfortunate thing is a lot

of people they let

Payan dictate their future that because

they experience pain they give up on

their goals in their vision they think

why even bother why even try that when I

did dream when I did go for it it didn't

work out the way that I wanted to and so

they allow the past to determine their

future you've got to be very careful

with that you've got to put yourself in

a state where you ask yourself what do I

want from my life whatever what am I

doing this for

and why do I want that you know if you

find it strong enough why the how will

take care of itself so really that's the

first thing that you need to really

discover if you want to get off your

house and get done and be

productive and be motivated is what do

you want spend a few hours create your

vision write it out make it so

compelling so exciting

that there's no right or wrong answer

it's what you want and what you want

might be totally different than what I

want

so get clear on that open up your mind

to different possibilities that could

exist for your life if if you just dream

big enough and you go for it you take

action towards it because everything is

possible whatever the mind can conceive

and believe it can achieve okay so

that's really where it starts is what

you want why you want it okay ask

yourself those questions but you find it

strong enough why

you'll feel pulled towards doing doing

what you want doing the things that are

necessary to get you there because all

the discomforts that you face along the

way all the ups and downs all those

things you're procrastinating on they'll

be so insignificant compared to your

desire and your why and your purpose

behind why what you're doing what you're

doing

the most successful people they have a

mission in their life it's not like it's

a job or work for them it's their

mission it's their purpose and they do

it you know many billionaires for

example they don't have to work anymore

they're still doing it not for the money

because it's their mission they have a

strong-enough why and vision behind why

they're doing what they're doing you tap

into that you're gonna tap into your

drive you tap into that you're gonna be

unstoppable

okay and your Y will change you always

going to reconnect with it and find what

that is and ask yourself why am I doing

this associate to that that's step

number one number two is you're going to

understand how pain and pleasure works

like I said before the reason why you're

lazy is that you associate in your mind

doing the things that you know

we should do as painful as uncomfortable

as challenging as hark and you've made

all that up in your head and you're

associating pleasure to the things are

doing to distract yourself the way that

you got to change this and we're gonna

do this right now is you have to link

and associate in your mind to the

consequences the consequences the pain

of not doing what you know you should do

you have to link pain to being lazy pain

to procrastinating pain to staying stuck

and staying where you are so much pain

that you hit a threshold you see the

truth can set you free you might have

heard that before if you can get to the

truth you can change anything in your

life but the challenge is that most

people they never get there

most people they tell themselves stories

about why you know why it's okay that

they don't do it they sugarcoat it to

say oh you know I can do it tomorrow

tomorrow never comes by the way if you

notice that I'm gonna do it tomorrow or

I'm still young or I'm you know I don't

have the money at the time I can do it

later they put it off and sure enough

what happens is that things build up to

a point where eventually you inevitably

you experience the pain and the

threshold that things get so painful you

hit rock-bottom that you finally get to

doing it you get to take an action so

don't wait for that to happen I believe

that right now you've got to associate

to the consequences in your life and

what it's costing you right now in your

life by not taking action so let me ask

you a few questions number one by you

being lazy right now if there's

something right now you can think of

that you know you should do that you're

not doing it what would that be okay

what would that be okay great you got it

let me ask you this what is it costing

you right now in your life by not doing

what you know you should do maybe for

you it's going to the gym maybe for you

it's building your business maybe for

you it's taking care of your health

maybe for you it's you know managing

your finances or getting out there to

meet someone right like what is that

costing you right now in your life

what's the consequence see the more

willingness you have to be a little bit

disturbed or satiated or experience the

pain the more likely you are to link the

pain to being lazy so you got to be

honest with yourself with this so what

is it costing right now it's costing you

your self-esteem your confidence

right because if you know you're not

taking action in your life you're not

gonna feel good about yourself you know

if you do have a goal or a dream you're

gonna think why even bother why go for

it because in my past I've never made

anything happen before so you're not

gonna have the confidence and

certainties so it's hurting your

self-esteem right now you're not gonna

feel good about yourself that's what

that's one thing that's costing you but

what else

maybe it's costing you your health and

the energy that you could have right now

you could have so much more energy than

ever before if you really put the

attention to focus on your body and by

taking care of your energy you're gonna

have more energy to give more and do

more and achieve more and enjoy more

you're gonna be happier you know what's

the cost of right now I'm not working on

your business and your goals and your

dream are you gonna have another day of

regret in your life you know wondering

what what your life could have been or

what you know that dream that you have

and the goals that you have for yourself

and not seeing them being actualized

does that really make it happy doesn't

that kind of disturb you a little bit I

know so well how is it what is it cost

me maybe you're right now struggling

you're in an apartment or a home and a

lifestyle that you're not really proud

of and you know that can that should

disturb you a little bit you know live

looking around and saying you know I

deserve more than this you know this is

not acceptable for me to live my life

this way when there's possibilities that

exist where people are financially free

and traveling the world and living

incredible homes and the credible

lifestyles and that's possible and Here

I am settling in my life for mediocrity

you know so that should disturb you a

little bit what is it costing maybe for

example your relationships if you're in

a relationship right now is the man or

woman that you're with are they proud of

you you know when they look at you are

they inspired by your example and your

leadership and how you're showing up in

your life you know or if you're trying

to attract a man or woman I mean are

they gonna be attracted to someone like

you is lazy and doesn't do what they say

it doesn't do anything with their life

you know in fact you might even miss all

out on that perfect man or a woman

because of this pattern because of this

habit that you have of leaving laziness

you know imagine the man or woman that

is there available for you that's their

soul mate but they're not gonna want to

be with someone that's showing up the

way you are right so I want you to ask

yourself and I'm trying to disturb you a

little bit if you don't mind as your

coach as your friend I'm trying to get

you a little bit disturbed on this right

because most people again they sugarcoat

it and they of

avoid pain the pain the truth can set

you free we got to be honest with

ourselves what is it costing you right

now in your life number two what does it

already cost you in your past

okay maybe alright now because of this

habit of laziness right now today you

could have more money more success more

freedom more happiness more energy a

better body a better relationship right

now if you had solved this a year ago

three years five ten years ago so look

at all that you've missed out on your

life by living the way you've been

living right now this habit of laziness

are you willing to continue living your

life this way that for the next five 10

years missing out on more missing out on

more happiness enjoying money and all

the things that you want to have yours

go buying your life remains the same

they're not making progress whereas

everyone else around you they're

achieving they're doing their move you

know moving ahead in their life and

making progress and you're still stuck

you know imagine if your life was you

know ten years from now what that would

be like for you you know twenty years

from now maybe when your 30s or 40s or

50 or 60 years old and you're still

lazy in your life you're still

can't get yourself to do you're

still making the same amount of money

that you did before you still got the

same body maybe a worse body or you know

maybe you're going through a divorce or

whatever it is all because of this habit

of laziness I mean is that what you want

is that what's acceptable for you so

really what I'm trying to do here and

what hopefully you're trying to do right

now as I ask you these questions is I

want you to link pain to being lazy it's

not until you get to the point where you

hit a threshold man when you get to a

point you hit rock-bottom

you decide you know what this pain is so

intense I'm no longer gonna live my life

this way anymore because the pain of

just doing this damn thing I've just

taken action is so minimal compared to

the pain of a regret in my life the pain

of mediocrity the pain of staying where

I am right it's not tell you make that

pain of laziness so much greater than

the pain I've just taken action that the

pain of not doing it will consume it and

you're gonna get yourself into action

because you're not gonna settle anymore

for this life that you're living right

now you're not gonna settle anymore for

laziness in your life because it's

costing you too much your whole life is

on the line and are you going to

continue living your life with this way

you should get to the point where you

hit that breaking point and you're like

hell no

know that pain will drive you that pain

will fuel the fire within yourself to

get into action and what you really got

to do here is you've got to use this

technique as you go when you catch

yourself falling back into the habit of

being lazy just ask yourself what does

this cost to me being lazy right now

what am I missing out on my in my life

what's the consequence of living my life

this way what would my life be like in

five or ten years if I continue to live

the way that I am right now okay so you

link pain but then also what you got to

do is I want you to link pleasure to

take an action pleasure towards being

productive pleasure towards doing the

things that you know you should do

pleasure towards that process pleasure

towards your goals and your dreams

that's going to create the pull of fat

you're going to feel pulled towards

doing what you know you know you need to

do so here's the question what pleasure

and benefit will you get in your life

right now by taking action on doing the

things you know you should do that thing

that you're procrastinating on right now

what pleasure benefit will that provide

for your life

what is it be honest with yourself okay

well probably number one your

self-esteem will go up because don't you

notice every time that you do the things

that you know you should do you feel

good about yourself like nobody ever

goes to the gym and then they come home

they feel bad about themselves that they

went to the gym everyone that goes to

the gym they're like yeah I went to the

gym their self-esteem improves you know

or every time you do your morning ritual

you do something good for yourself or

you sit down for 30 minutes and you read

a book or you meditate or you pray or

you spend an hour working on your

business when you take actions that are

in alignment with the life you want your

self-esteem goes up you feel better

about yourself you know what happens you

get into momentum the better that you

feel about yourself the more likely you

are to take action the more the more

pleasure that you experience from it

that it leads to you taking more action

and be more productive that's how this

works right so your self-esteem goes up

your confidence goes up your happiness

goes up you know by doing this

specifically will improve your body will

improve your relationships will improve

your finances your business your goals

and your dreams you know maybe just

doing this is going to make you more

discipline more productive a stronger

human being right your training

to do the things that you got to do even

we don't feel like doing it because if

you always wait till you feel like it

you're never gonna do it so what's the

pleasure what's the benefit okay so use

the pain and pleasure okay that's

technique number two number three the

last one is accountability cuz listen

there's times when you know you're not

gonna feel like doing it listen I get it

I pin there before many times myself but

that's really where you need help see

most people are going through life and

they're not asking for help they're

going about it alone I don't know anyone

who has ever become successful by

themselves everyone that I know who is

successful has had a coach a mentor a

mastermind and accountability group

they've been in proximity with other

people that hold them to a higher

standard because the quality of your

life is in direct proportion to the

expectations of your peer group you guys

from Tony Robbins when you're in a peer

group you're around other people they

have high standards high expectations

they're productive they're not lazy you

raise up to that automatically because

you take on their beliefs and their

mindset it elevates you so the simplest

thing that you can do okay find an

accountability buddy

call a friend find someone in a Facebook

group online I've got my project life

mastery global community on Facebook

join our group we got thousands of

people from all over the world I'll link

to it below for you guys but join a

Facebook group or be a part of a

community and then find someone who's

like-minded who's also motivated that

wants to make this change in their life

work out a deal with them and say hey

listen every single morning at seven

o'clock in the morning we're gonna call

each other on the phone on skype on

zoom' we're gonna hop on a quick

5-minute call all we're gonna do is

we're gonna share three things that

we're committed to doing for that day

okay three things that's it you're not

gonna give in your whole to-do list the

three most important high leverage

things that you want to be accountable

for you share that with your buddy okay

you say to them listen I'm gonna hold

you accountable to what you're gonna do

you're gonna hold me accountable here's

the deal if I commit to doing these

three things but I don't do it okay then

there's got to be a consequence if I

break my commitment I will pay ten

dollars to a charity of your choice for

every commitment that I break now for

you maybe ten bucks isn't much it's not

going to create pain for you

it is okay maybe you got to find a

different thing like that but that's the

simplest thing that you can do and then

what you do is either later on that day

and that evening you do another call

with them and you do a check-in or you

do it the next morning when you do your

next call and you say okay what did you

do what didn't you do if you did do it

you got to celebrate it you acknowledge

it your word yourself because whatever

it gets rewarded it gets repeated

okay that's worth writing down whatever

it gets rewarded will get repeated you

acknowledge you reward each other for

that and then you also men make another

commitment for that day so now you're

not just accountable to yourself where

you can back out of your commitment you

can say I don't feel like it you're not

gonna show up you're not going to do it

now you're accountable to someone else

so that's the simplest thing you could

do an accountability buddy or maybe it's

a mastermind group where you meet with

them every week or every month either

online or in person or maybe you got a

coach or a mentor that is coaching you

on a weekly basis to make sure that you

are following through and holding you

accountable all the most successful

people all top professional athletes and

top performers have coaches why a coach

gets more out of them out of the ever

could have on their own right LeBron

James Michael Jordan were incredible

athletes and still are but what's

allowed them to go to that next level

was having a great coach right the coach

is what pushed them to that next level

to get that extra 10 20 percent of

themselves that they couldn't get out of

themselves on their own okay so that's

how you overcome laziness and get

yourself being consistent and taking

massive action so remember what I said

knowing what your vision is what you

want why you want it associate to that

number two is associate pain to laziness

and not doing the things you know you

should do and pleasure to the process of

doing it okay number three is get

accountability whether that's a buddy a

mastermind or a coach so put that into

action if you're watching this right now

on YouTube please leave a comment below

let me know how this worked for you I

don't want to hear if you did take

action after this what came up for you

what did you do or just comment below

and just tell everyone else below that

are watching this video what you're

gonna commit to doing comment and make a

public declaration by sharing it below

you're gonna be accountable to that

you're going to be much more likely to

follow through and of course right after

this video

take action don't move on to another

video get distracted okay use the

energy-momentum that hopefully we

created right now in this video to get

yourself into action and just do it eat

the Frog okay just do what you need to

do right now because that will lead to

momentum and celebrate it so that you

build that self-esteem and that

confidence and you reward yourself so

that you can repeat that again in the

future if you enjoyed this please give

this a thumbs up here on YouTube

subscribe for more videos here on

project life mastery as well I do videos

on motivation and mindset success on

every area of life really but also on

how to build a business to create

freedom as well so if you want more from

me subscribe here below otherwise thank

you so much I look forward to seeing you

again in the next video god bless

you

#Best Education Page #Online Earning

online earning,make money online, earn money online, online earning, online earning sites,

 make money online free, online money income, earn money online free, money online, best way to earn money online, online income site, money earning websites, best online earning sites, easiest way to earn money online, earn money payment bkash, online money income site