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hey everyone this is stefan from

projectlifemastery.com and today i'm

going to share with you guys a little

bit about my hair loss experience and

story to me shaving my head bald as you

guys know me to be now for the last few

years I know there's a lot of men out

there that have asked me throughout the

years to do a video on this because

you're going through what I went through

which is hair loss balding you might be

watching this right now as a man and

your hair is thinning maybe a receding

hairline or maybe their crown is

thinning and I know exactly what you're

going through I know what it's like I

know the insecurities that you might

feel or just the overall suffering and

agony because for a lot of men it could

be traumatizing because so much of who

you are your identity and how you appear

and present yourself to the world and to

yourself is how you look and your hair

is a big part of that and often times

we're so attached to that and it's

something that could be outside your

control and with something so let's add

your control and it makes you feel

self-conscious and insecure it can

really affect your life it could I know

it affected me in a big way just my

confidence my communication with the

opposite sex with other people and just

on a daily basis is really affecting me

and for those of you that are going

through that or might know someone

that's going through that I want to

speak to you right now and share with

you my story that you can maybe relate

to and where I'm at today with that

being free of having to really worry

about that the solution that that works

for me

so let's backtrack a little bit of

history I probably started losing my

hair a little bit in my early 20s maybe

when I was 20 21 years old at a pretty

early age and you know before then and

throughout my 20s I always styled my

hair I used different gels and different

products and did different hair styles

but what I found was that over time my

hair was just thinner and thinner I just

kind of thought well maybe my hair is

just always kind of naturally been thin

and I didn't really see hair loss as a

possibility for me because my dad has a

full set of hair and my grandparents I

also have a full set of hair because

I've heard that it can kind of skip the

generation or grandparents so I didn't

really think you know that I would

actually end up having to deal with that

but as time went on I just knows

my hair getting thinner and thinner and

I started mainly noticing it around my

hairline having a receding hairline and

that affected my ability to really style

my hair and stuff and so as time went on

I I tried to hide it you know I try to

style my hair in different ways and I

started feeling more insecure about it

and you know I I no idea that my crown

also was also thinning as well it wasn't

till actually I saw I think a picture or

something and I noticed it and I was

like oh my god and just remember how

depressing I felt it was to kind of be

aware of that and just you know how I

looked and I again I just tried to style

my hair in different ways to mask it and

it just got worse and worse over the

years you know throughout my 20s and I

looked for different solutions and so I

ended up going I remember to a

dermatologist and you go to a

dermatologist and of course they want to

prescribe different drugs to you so you

know one of the drugs was Rogaine which

i think is forget what what the

ingredient is but you know you can now

buy it buy it at most most stores or

pharmacies but road grant Rogaine which

basically helps to regrow hair so it

doesn't really prevent it it just house

with hair growth and I remember having

to use this Rogaine I think two or three

times a day and just the smell of it and

I've always been someone that's really

into health and I try to avoid chemicals

putting that to my body because I know

the consequence isn't the effect that

that can have the body doesn't know how

to deal with it and so having to put

that on my head every single day

I knew long-term it wasn't really

aligned with the holistic approach that

I tend to take with health but it did

help it did help a bit I did notice that

I had smaller strands of hair regrow but

unfortunately it wasn't helping enough

to really solve the problem and it

wasn't really addressing the root cause

of it either so it was kind of like it

wasn't really a sustainable solution for

me you know having to use rogain every

single day but i did that for years for

years I used Rogaine it was expensive I

think it's way cheaper now which is

crazy but I remember at the time when I

was buying it was fairly expensive

and then you know I still wasn't you

know getting you know it wasn't really

helping the way that I wanted it to so I

ended up going back to the dermatologist

and they actually prescribed to me

propecia which is a pill that I'd have

to take a drug every day and that also

was very expensive I remember I don't

know how much it is now but we're taking

that every day and now actually helps to

helps to basically prevent the hair loss

and I took that I think for maybe six

months to a year and it did help you

know it did help a bit but again it

wasn't like this magical solution that

really solved everything for me it

wasn't sustainable either because again

I didn't you know wanted to take a drug

for the rest of my life a pill and I

knew the effects that could have on my

health as well and and what really

actually made a shift for me I remember

at the time I was in San Diego I was

living in a hostel at the time and I was

doing research and I actually noticed

some side-effects I just really couldn't

explain what they were but I I notice I

was being a little bit I felt a little

more depressed and my libido was a lot

less as well and I actually did research

online actually found a community like a

message board of people that had been

taking propecia and and and drugs like

that for hair loss for men and like

there's a whole community and movement

that was against it you know because of

how it's actually ruined and affect a

lot of people's lives and I remember his

reading these the forum threads and

there's websites on it and stuff and

about how people that had been

prescribed for patience was idle

thoughts erectile dysfunction lack of

motivation and and just all these

negative effects low energy and when I

discovered that I I freaked out I was

like oh my god I have to get off this

right now because a lot of people the

effects were irreversible as well that

David had gone off of it and the

symptoms that was the side effects still

continued

and you know I just read all these

different horror stories about it and I

just research heard it more and more and

I just made a decision you know what

this is not a long-term sustainable

solution for me I felt like I just had

to stop and I did and if you are in that

position you could research I don't know

if I don't remember the forums and stuff

but it is worth going deeper into the

effects of these drugs and how it might

be affecting your life because for me

you know the you know the the benefit

that that drug was giving me was not

worth the side effects of the depression

and the low energy and low motive all

that negative effects that came with it

was not worth a few extra strands of

hair you know and trying to prolong

something that is inevitably gonna you

know go away anyways because as I just

knew as I got older you know it was just

gonna get worse and worse and worse my

hair so I fully went off of that I think

there's a certain protocol for getting

off you don't want to get off right away

you kind of want to lower the dose and

break up your tablets a little bit to

get off of it but once I got off of it I

was like you know I just feel so much

better now and I think you know I didn't

have any negative effects thankfully

thankfully but um what happened was you

know sure enough I got off of that as

well as the Rogaine and my hair got

worse so my hair was thinning more and

more again the insecurities that I had

around that at the time I was single so

I was trying to you know go out meet

women and date and all that sort of

stuff too and I just remember it

affected me in a big way and I think one

of the worst things I remember is I

always styled my hair I had to style my

hair a certain way to kind of try to

cover up you know the the bald spots and

whenever I'd go outside and like the

wind would just like ruin my hair and it

would expose you know expose like my

receding hairline or like if I put on a

hat it would just like hey that's game

over my hair is now ruined I just

remember the insecurities that I had at

the time in my early 20s going through

that and what actually ended up

happening is you know as time gone on I

was getting worse and worse but I was

actually in the relationship with this

girl and

you know I remember just kind of like

sharing this with her and at the time

you know I was also going through a lot

of self-development and spiritual growth

and I realized how much this was

affecting my life the attachment to it

because often times we have attachments

choose to these external things we

identify it as part of who we are and

that might be your car it might be your

house it might be being successful or

having a certain amount of money it

might be having a man or a woman into

your life it might be your identity is

caught up in a title such as being a

doctor or a student or this person or

that person or how other people perceive

you and I realized and learned the

negative effects from that about how

when you grow spiritually it's really

about being less attached to external

things and how these things they end up

owning us if you ever seen Fight Club or

read the book you know the things that

we own end up owning us and so I

actually made a decision I was like you

know what I should just shave my head

you know and I should do it not

necessarily for a solution for my

balding but I should actually do it for

self growth purposes because I wanted to

challenge myself I wanted to grow I knew

that by me getting rid of my hair you

know I would have to confront this

insecurity that I have I would have to

learn how to create confidence that was

not situational because my confidence at

the time was dependent on things like my

hair how I look and that's not real

confidence real confidence is you're

confident in who you are regardless of

how you look you could wake up you know

out of bed and still feel confident you

should never feel have your confidence

your self esteems to be so dependent on

how you look or whether you're running

makeup or you know your body or whatever

because there's some people that are so

comfortable in their skin and they're

just so confident in who they are they

don't need anything external and so I

knew it was something that I needed to

do for that reason because this was

something that I had to confront

I had to face it I had to you know say

you know what I need to go to another

level here and this has been in control

in my life long enough

got dissatisfied I hit a threshold I

said you know what I'm gonna shave it

off and you know it wasn't really that

big of a deal I mean it was at the time

but part of me knew you know what I

could always grow it back that's a great

thing about it right it's not permanent

that within a few months my hair would

grow back and it would just be an

experiment that I do and by the end of

it yeah I might you know lose my hair

but be bald but and I might look

horrible but by doing so I'll be a

better person and what actually made it

a little bit more challenging at the

time is I was also doing YouTube videos

and many of you guys might remember me

on youtube if you go back to my earlier

videos back in 2012-2013 I had hair and

all of a sudden one day on YouTube you

know my subscribers see me bald and

without hair and so that was something

in the back of my mind as well is okay

now it's not like I just have to you

know do this and just the people my life

and I'm also someone who's putting

themself out there has subscribers and

followers social media whatnot that they

were also go now notice this and judge

me for it as well so that kind of made a

little bit harder than probably what a

lot of people might have to go through

with it but I said you know what I'm

gonna own it I'm gonna do it

and I remember I shaved my head and I

was shocked with how I look just how you

normally are when you have a drastic

change you look yourself in the mirror

and you're like oh my god you look so

different you got to adapt to looking at

yourself in that way as well as my

girlfriend at the time too and I

remember after that you know whenever

I'd see my friends or family it was all

so they had to adapt to it as well so of

course they would notice it they would

say something but what actually really

shifted me with it was what I felt free

I felt less controlled by this thing you

know I just felt like you know I don't

have to worry about this anymore now and

I didn't know I didn't think I really

looked particularly good bald but what

actually happened that that really

shifted it for me as well is that I

didn't get any negativity around it you

know I didn't my friends and family they

didn't say anything negative and of

course you actually look you don't look

good initially because you have weird

tan line like your face is tanned

then your head is like really pale so it

doesn't look good in that sense and you

might have different bumps on your head

and stuff that you weren't aware of but

I didn't get any negativity around it

and especially when I was on YouTube

that was the most surprising thing

because you know YouTube as you guys

probably know you watched YouTube videos

is that because people are anonymous on

YouTube you get more negativity people

just say inappropriate things and crazy

stuff all the time and so I was

expecting some neg you know negativity

or people saying you look you know dumb

or why did you shave your head or

whatever it was but I didn't get that at

all in fact I ended up getting some

compliments from people it actually made

me like wow this is cool

and sure enough I adapted to it and I

actually found that I actually looked

better you know I found that I feel more

confident I think it's changed my look

in a lot of ways and I think also

understanding that it's it's actually

not uncommon you know for me I remember

at the time is like a big deal for me

because I have that attachment but then

when I look at it now I see bald people

everywhere and I see of all people

everywhere that I go there's a lot of

men that shaved their head as well

and not only that there's a lot of

celebrities that have done it too you

know whether it's doing the rock Johnson

too Vin Diesel - Bruce Bruce Willis -

you know a lot of different celebrities

Michael Jordan and a lot of people that

we look up to you that I've also shaved

their head and look great it's almost

like it's it's like a sex symbol thing

now where there's actually people that

are more attracted to people that look

that way and I think it also kind of

give me a more masculine masculine look

as well and especially because I can you

know keep my facial hair and stuff got

my own kind of look for doing that too

and so it ended up being a decision that

I made that was one of the best

decisions that I've made and you know it

really freed me in my life from that

insecurity but also has helped me become

way more confident much more confident

as a man to not be dependent on

something as silly as as

and having that affect me and so if

you're watching this right now and your

hair is thinning and you're going

through this as well but my advice to

you would be this one is you got to find

sustainable solutions and I wasn't able

to find it you know I tried natural

supplements I dried the pills and the

drugs I actually went to a consultation

for a hair transplant as well at one

point as I was just so insecure and it

really affected member Tom's I was just

so depressed over losing my hair then I

went to a place for a hair transplant

consultation but I realized that's not

even sustainable because yeah they're

gonna take you know your your hair

follicles and put it you know different

posture here but you're gonna still lose

your hair so you're gonna have patches

and there's a certain point where they

can't take more to be able to you know

fill in all the different patches

they're gonna have to continue to have

as you lose your hair so for me like

that wasn't even a long-term solution

for it and I think so so look for a

long-term solution I don't know what's

available now maybe there are things

that can help prolong it or help prevent

it I'm not sure it's worth looking into

that but number two is it might be

worthwhile for you to shave your head

not necessarily for how you're gonna

look but to grow as a human being to

improve your confidence to purposely do

it in a way just as a way just for you

to learn how to be comfortable with

yourself and confident and free yourself

from the insecurities and not be so

caught up and dependent on your hair

being something that determines your

self-esteem because I realize that that

that is sad that's pathetic you know

that Who I am is so much of its

dependent on something like hair so

that's something that is worth exploring

and I'm not here to tell you to do that

that's obviously outdoor decision your

choice but it ended up being the right

decision for me something I'm so

grateful for and you know it's really

impacted and changed my life for the

better and let me just be more happy

more confident so that for me has been a

long-term sustainable solution

you know might be worth looking into you

it's very common a lot of people do it

and it might be something that you love

and you're happy with that could really

you know end up really changing a life

for the better so that's my story guys

that's my experience if you're going

through hair loss balding or if you've

shaved your head I'd love to hear your

experience leave a comment below this

video for other people out there that

are going through it as well

you know because if you've already been

through or you found solutions or things

that have helped you or you've shaved

your head or any tips or advice that you

guys have I know by leaving a comment it

can help other people that watch this

video that are maybe still going through

that phase of having to deal with and

adapt to losing their hair so thank you

so much for watching this video leave a

comment subscribe for more and I'll talk

to you again soon take care

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