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Why People Are Negative, Pessimistic And Skeptical



hey this is stefan from
projectlifemastery.com why is it that
some people are just negative they have
a negative attitude or they're
pessimistic or they're skeptical about
everything and the reason why I bring
this up is because I've had a really
unique experience over the last few
months the last few years of just
putting myself out there in the world of
the Internet just being transparent open
and a lot of great things come from that
you know I've really enjoyed hearing the
praise and how people have been inspired
by me in one way or another or I love
hearing how somebody watched my video or
went to my blog and their life has
changed and you know their finances have
changed or whatever it might be I really
live for that and really inspires me and
it makes me want to do this more but at
the same time in the world the internet
there's also that negative side the dark
side where you have people that
criticize you or put you down or just
have a negative pessimistic attitude
towards something that you're putting
out there and sharing to them that can
make a difference in their life but at
the same time they'll shoot it down and
say that doesn't work you know since
I've launched Kindle money mastery I've
been really proud just to see so many
people have incredible success of going
through that program you know I've seen
people that have emailed me and saying
Stefan you know this has changed my life
I'm making a couple hundred dollars a
month passive income already I've had
people tell me they're making two three
thousand four thousand dollars a month
passive income within only two to three
months of applying the stuff in the
program and I love that it really I'm
like wow that impresses me even just to
see the success people have and I love
just to see that but at the same time
I've also experienced where there's
people that say oh that doesn't work or
is this must be a scam or a ripoff or
you know you're not being you're not
sincere in some way or whatever it is
and it really made me think why is that
you know why is it that people are
negative why is it the people are
pessimistic why is it that people are
skeptical about maybe something that I
share in a video that has the power or
potential to change their life or why is
it that they're skeptical to buy this
book that can change their life or to
invest in this program or go to a
seminar or hire a coach
and when people say you know this
doesn't work this must be a scam this is
um you know it's a ripoff or whatever it
is and they kind of come up with these
negative reasons or in the same way when
people you know comment on a YouTube
video and say something negative about
another person why is that why are
people negative and I've got really an
incredible education over the last few
months really analyzing this and
unfortunately I don't take it personally
in any way but I've made me really
analyze why is it that people are
behaving this way while at the same time
there's certain people that just get
incredible results they apply the
information it makes a difference for
them and it changes their life you know
why is it that there's this you know
fraction of people there's negative all
the time about everything and it made me
get maybe really think and really dig
deep and what I really concluded is that
when people have say they're negative or
that this doesn't work or this is a scam
or ripoff or whatever it is what they
really are is they're fearful what they
really are is just afraid and it's not
that they don't believe in the product
or the course or the program or whatever
it is is that they don't believe in
themselves and you know they have some
sort of scarcity mentality in some way
where they think well if this person is
successful you know why why are they
sharing with everyone else why don't
they just keep it to themselves and they
have this this level of scarcity around
that kind of stuff and think well this
must be some sort of scam because you
know all this kind of stuff and really
they're afraid of being disappointed
that's the reason why anyone doesn't do
anything the why anyone will not invest
in a program or take action or whatever
they're afraid of getting their hopes up
to a level where they can take action to
pursue their dreams or make something
happen and so it's a lot easier to
protect themselves and just say this
doesn't work this is a scam or ripoff or
whatever it is and it allows them to be
comfortable and stay where they are
instead of taking that risk and so
really that's really what it comes down
to and I and I really thought long and
hard about this
it's because people have been
disappointed so many times in their
lives you know they've maybe invested in
a book or a program and I'm sure you can
relate to this you maybe hire a coach or
you go to a seminar you know you apply
something that you believe it's gonna
change your life in some way maybe it's
an opportunity maybe it's an investment
maybe it's whatever it is that someone
said hey go do this or a business or
whatever and you got your hopes up you
got excited you went for it and then you
failed and you came up short and then
you felt lousy and disappointed and what
ends up happening is when that happens
again and again and again and again
people start to develop a pattern where
they believe that nothing will ever work
they get into a place of learned
helplessness and they judge things not
because they've experienced and gone
through it but they're more basing that
judgment on the past and so I realized
when somebody says oh that doesn't work
they're skeptical about this they're
closed off about that you know that's a
ripoff or a scam or whatever really what
they're doing is they're responding to
the past they have this negative
conditioning from the past and
unfortunately if you keep living in the
past and bring that into the future
there'll be no future and if you don't
take any risk if you don't if you aren't
willing to get excited about something
and get your hopes up and get really
pumped up and juiced and say hey you
know what this can change my life or I'm
gonna go for it or you know this program
all these other people have been getting
great success I'm gonna go for it as
well and to do that you are gonna face
failure you are gonna face pain and deal
with that kind of stuff along the way
but at the same time you're gonna get
incredible rewards as well you know the
higher the risk the higher the reward
the lower the risk the lower the rewards
and a lot of people just by staying
where they are out of fear of being
disappointed they just try to lie to
themselves and convince themselves that
they're happy right this I don't need
any of that stuff I'm happy just the way
I am and a lot of those people they're
not really happy they have dreams and
they've just given up and they've just
allowed themselves just to be
comfortable and stay exactly where they
are because they're so afraid of getting
their hopes up or excited ever again
they have no faith whatsoever and it
takes faith to start
business the state takes faith to get
into a new relationship takes faith to
make a change in your life and really
what it comes down to is you have to
reignite that and be willing to still
believe no matter what and have that
faith and keep it and be willing to put
yourself out there and not let that
judgment whenever that comes up where
you feel yourself judging something and
saying well that's not gonna work or you
know why even bother or you know you
know for example you might see
testimonials and think oh those are just
paid testimonials those people aren't
sincere they're not real you know really
that it is just your negative
conditioning and people have conditioned
themselves so many times again and again
in the same way you know with a youtube
video or you know with something that
has the power to really transform
someone's life you know there could be
incredible content in a video or in a
book or in a seminar a course or a coach
gives to them but what happens is people
have conditioned themselves to think
negative and look for the negative so
often that out of all the positive stuff
that's there they'll find that one
negative thing and read a negative
comment about something instead of
looking at all the positive information
that was there and really that's just a
pattern that's just a way that people
have conditioned themselves to always
look for the negative always focus on
the negative and even if like I said
there could be beauty all around you
there could be so much positivity love
whatever it might be you know you walk
into a party it could be the best party
for you know most people there but the
negative person will always find a
negative thing to nitpick about and find
a negative thing to take away from that
whereas someone that's positive they go
to a seminar they read a book they
invest in a program they hire a coach
whatever it might be they'll always look
for the positive even if it was a crappy
seminar they'll still find one positive
thing that's there and really I think
that's one of the most important things
to just being ahead just to live a happy
life in and to really have a level of
success in your life is to look for the
good and be more positive and don't put
any judgments on things and understand
that that's just the conditioning of the
past and I think if you can do that it
will really make a huge difference in
your life just that awareness of when
you're being negative and when you're
being positive and to always look for
the good in every situation because if
you're looking for it it's there if you
look hard enough it's there you know I
remember you know for me but if I read a
book or go to a summoner or whatever I
could have heard all that exact same
information again and again and again
you know it doesn't matter to me because
if there's one thing in that seminar
that stands out to me in a different way
or maybe a lightbulb goes off in my head
or maybe actually act on it or use it or
maybe there's you know I'll go to a
seminar and most of the stuff sucks but
there's this one good thing they're
coming back from that experience I will
say that was an incredible seminar I
will say that seminar was incredible it
was amazing just because of that one
thing I got from it because I associate
to it and I take the good out of
everything in my life I take the good
out of negative situations instead of
letting those situations bring me down
or crush me in some way I'll look for
the good in the negative situations and
I'll use those situations to inspire me
and build me up and make me stronger so
that I can move forward and I'll use
them instead of having them use me if
you can really take control of that and
can take it really what it is is taking
control the meaning in your life
the meaning that you associate to things
then your life can transform in so many
levels and so if you're watching this
video if you're you know someone on
YouTube that comments on things
hopefully in some way that this video or
mind on my message in some way has
gotten through to you or maybe you you
know maybe you'll reject it or write a
negative comment whatever it is that's
fine but I'm hoping for some people that
this will actually resonate with some
people in some way and they'll just in
some way take this and be more positive
in their lives and look at things and
get excited again and maybe there's a
dream or a goal you've given up on or
maybe a program that you want it you
know invest in or go to or seminar or
whatever it is just be aware of that
negative conditioning that doubt that
fear that skepticism again you're just
being afraid and you're afraid of
getting your hopes up but at the same
time you know you have to be willing to
dream again get your hopes up and just
go for it and keep that faith and that
belief that anything is possible
thank you for watching talk to you soon

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