alright why is it important to sit and
achieve goals why is it important to
have a dream to have a vision to have
something that's bigger than yourself
that you can pursue in this video I want
to talk to you guys a little bit about
that because I think a lot of people
they don't really understand and realize
the importance of goals and what the
true purpose and the true value of
setting and achieving goals is I believe
that goals are ways for us to become
more and really in our life it's not
about what we get because what you get
is not gonna make you happy you know if
you have a goal to have a beautiful car
or to have a beautiful house or
money or to have this incredible body or
to attract you know this perfect man or
woman in your life if you have a goal
like that that goal when you achieve it
that's not gonna make you happy that's
not gonna make you fulfilled oftentimes
when you achieve that goal you'll get up
a high you'll get a rush you'll feel
this sense of pride or accomplishment if
you're really good about yourself for a
moment but it's not gonna last forever
you know once you maybe make a million
dollars you're gonna have this
incredible rush they're gonna feel wow
that was amazing and you might be on
fire for a few months but again that's
only gonna last for a certain period of
time and it's different for everybody
you know it might only last a month
three months so might last a week it
might only last a day or even a few
hours in fact I found that the more that
you achieve more then that feeling of
euphoria kind of wears off much faster
and I remember the first time actually
the first high that I had was when I
made my first dollar online and I
remember just having this incredible
high because it represented all these
incredible possibilities for myself and
it created this vision oh my god if I if
someone that I didn't know somewhere in
the world actually purchased my product
and I provided value for them and they
provided value back by paying me for it
then what else is possible how could I
scale that up maybe I could have a
hundred customers or turn that into a
hundred dollars or a thousand or ten
thousand or a hundred thousand or a
million and so the excitement from that
really juiced me and after that when I
made a hundred bucks I had this thing
credible hi and then you know once I
made the big one for me was when I was
making I think five thousand a month
that was one goal that I had for years
if I could just make five thousand
dollars in a month then that would be
more than enough to live and live really
well and comfortably and have my own
apartment downtown Vancouver cuz
downtown is pretty expensive and I could
take care of my health and I could
invest in other vehicles and I could you
know have my own car and I could
contribute you know give a bit of money
here and there to different causes and
things that I was passionate about and
if I can make it passive income then oh
my god then at that point I can retire I
could be financially free because that'd
be more than enough money to pay for my
expenses and so I remember the feeling
that I had at shivi met but again it
didn't last very long you know at first
I'm gonna last a few months and I
remember when I moved into a penthouse
about two and a half three years ago
that was this incredible high this
incredible rush for a few months but
then it were off and I remember buying a
Corvette the brand new 2014 Corvette
Stingray you know no one else had it
they only released a certain amount you
know in each province in each city
around the world right so it's very
exclusive only each dealership got one
right so I'm never buying that I
remember you know driving home in that
car
with this incredible rush and just
feeling like I remember I I just like
celebrated like crazy you know I was
like a little kid in that car and I felt
this incredible sense of joy and
happiness but again it didn't last
forever right you know the first few
times you drive that car it's amazing
but what happens is is the law of
familiarity kicks in and the same thing
happens in a relationship the same thing
can happen you know you purchase
anything materialistic same thing could
happen when you travel is you have a
certain novelty from that but again and
then it eventually wears off and so you
realize once you've had this a few times
and maybe you haven't experienced it yet
but you will I can promise you all the
most successful people in the world have
once you've experienced that a number of
times then that wears off and it gets to
a point where you know you just get used
to it
it becomes in
the known familiar for you and you don't
get that that happiness and joy and
often tell us for a lot of people they
feel depressed this is a very common
thing there's a lot of people that
experience depression once they achieve
their goals because they thought that it
would make them happy they thought life
would be incredible and amazing and all
their problems would disappear but they
don't realize that it comes with more
problems you know I'll give you an
example I just moved into this pentose
here there's a hot tub on the roof and I
was like oh cool little hot tub that's
amazing I never had a hot tub before but
pretty cool but I realized having a hot
tub comes with a lot of problems comes
with a lot of challenges you got to
service it you got to make sure that you
know every few days the pH levels are
right and you got to put these chemicals
in it I'm like you know I don't I don't
want to put chemicals and soak in a tub
with all these chemicals and chlorine
and stuff like I'm the healthiest person
that I know I've got it you know a water
ionizer here and I've got a shower
filters and I invest thousands of
dollars on this sort of stuff so I'm
like oh all these you know new problems
arise and it costs money to service it
and you get a Hep A more for your hydro
you know because you always have to have
it running in a certain temperature and
you're gonna clean it and there's just
so much come that comes with that that a
lot of people don't realize that like
these things don't solve everything for
you in your life and that problems don't
go away you keep having problems but
your problems typically end up being
higher quality problem you know which is
great still a great problem to have
because you know most people don't have
some of those luxuries but problems
don't go away you know they're here to
stay and I think the real value is
understanding okay if you're gonna set
goals for yourself and you're gonna have
a dream and a vision and you know that
it's not gonna make you happy when you
achieve them you're gonna have a rush
for a moment and you know often people
don't realize that and they get
depressed because it's not what they
thought and they think oh my god what's
up what's the point of doing all this
then what's the purpose of setting these
goals and achieving these things if it's
not even gonna make me happy you know
it's like the astronauts that went to
the moon the whole life they had this
goal to go to the moon you know no one
else has done that before and they
finally achieved the goal and they have
a parade and they're excited they're
happy for a few months but then
afterwards they're depressed
because they achieve this incredible
vision this incredible goal and then
realize that that didn't really fulfill
them and make them happy and so now it's
like what comes close to that and you
know what can you achieve that's bigger
than that and so a lot of them are
depressed if you read their stories of
biographies and whatnot so my point of
this video what's the purpose of goals I
believe that the purpose of setting and
achieving goals is not what you get what
you get will not make you happy but it's
who you become it's who you become in
the process the pursuit of it because
what you get can always be taken away
you can always lose money you can lose
your house your car you can lose all the
materialistic things but who you become
nobody can take that away from you and
who you become the skills the knowledge
that's the most valuable thing of all
because if you lose everything you can
always recreate it I know that if I lost
everything
I'd be fine and I would probably hurt
for a little while take a while to get
used to it I've got to get used to it
and then I would just recreate what I've
done but do it much faster much more
elegantly more efficiently because I
haven't lost who I become the process
the journey the skills the knowledge
information the resourcefulness the
emotions the passion all the things
that's within me that I've developed
because of setting and achieving goals
you know I remember a really great thing
from Jim Rohn Jim Rohn is the great
motivational speaker who passed away he
was Tony Robbins mentor really great man
I recommend watch looking him up on
youtubes got amazing videos and audios
and I really studied the man a lot one
thing he said really resonated with me
I've heard it years ago and it's always
stuck out in my head my my mind he said
that everyone should make it their goal
to make a million dollars in their
lifetime okay everybody should make it
their goal to earn a million dollars in
their lifetime and he said not for the
money okay not for the million dollars
the money doesn't matter he can give
away the money to chair
but for who you become in the process
because you see the make a million
dollars to have an incredibly fit body
to attract this incredible person in
your life to achieve any big goal of
meaning it's not easy it's not easy if
it was easy then everybody would be
successful everybody would be you know
healthy and fit and have this incredible
body and it's perfect life it's not easy
it's very hard it's very challenging but
what matters is not the money but who
you become in the process of achieving
it because because it's so hard to make
a million dollars you have to become
someone of value you have to become more
and when you become more you can earn
more and you have to give more as well
because in order to make a million
dollars do well financially you get
rewarded for what you've been what
you've given that's all really you know
business is that's all really making
money is is an offer and exchange of
value right so for example in order for
you to make money you've got to give
more you've got to give by creating
quality products quality service by
solving people's problems by meeting
their needs in some way by changing
their state by entertaining them there's
many ways but those are all forms of
contribution and a lot of people don't
realize that business is a spiritual
game because in business you're required
to grow and to give all right you have
to give in business to be successful if
you've given and you over deliver then
you can prosper if you over deliver you
get raving fans and you'll have
customers for light they'll keep coming
back and buy more and more from you so
over delivering and giving is the
essence of being successful but when you
give in business you're also providing
the opportunity for someone else to give
back to you and they give to you they
add value to you by paying you for your
products and services
so you give and you also receive that's
how business works
so being successful forces you to become
a giver which is very important now
for me in my business I always choose to
over-deliver and give more than when
people pay right and I'm that way in my
life honestly is I always remind myself
to be successful in a relationship a
relationship is not a place you go to
get it's a place you go to give you're
there to give unconditional love and
meet the other person's needs and you're
not expecting anything return but sure
enough when you give you get back
tenfold and it's the same thing in
business if you focus on servicing your
customers having massive value helping
them solve their problems and meeting
their needs and you over deliver and
they're consistent with it
again and again and again then you've
got a fan for life you got a customer
that's like oh my god I paid $100 $50
$1000 $10,000 for something and I got
back $100 worth of value I got back a
thousand dollars ten thousand one
hundred dollars a hundred thousand
dollars worth of value in return for
that then obviously you know you're
gonna have a great customer forever so
business and success is all about
becoming more and giving more and in
order to become a millionaire you have
to go through a lot of challenges right
you have to learn a lot you have to
invest in yourself you have to acquire
the knowledge the skills and develop it
you've got to practice you always get
rewarded in public for the thousands of
hours that you practice in private you
got to condition yourself you have to
develop your mindset you got a faced
adversity and failure and your fears and
doubt and worry you got to build your
confidence you got to build your
intelligence you gotta become decisive
there's so much that goes into being
successful and being a millionaire and
when you achieve that goal you become
someone who's worthy of that and you'll
only earn what you're worthy of you know
some people say to me well Stephan I
want to be a millionaire and I said
great how many people have you helped
how many customers have you have how
many people are sending you emails and
messages and sending you in the mail how
you've impacted them and how much of a
difference you made in their life and
how their life is better off for you how
many people do you have that you've had
that kind of impact on that are reaching
out to you what if you give it
and who have you become you see that's
really that the formula right there is
become more and give more and you'll be
a become more successful and when you
become warm that gives you a knowing a
pride of confidence a belief of
happiness and fulfillment that no one
can take away from you and I believe
that's the true value of achieving goals
and while I use financial as an example
from Jim Rohn it really goes the same
for everything and I've done two fitness
competitions where I did fitness
modeling called the WBFF and you know I
was required to transform my body and I
was required to get very low body fat
and make a lot of sacrifices it was
definitely not easy very few people were
willing to do it but by going through
that man I can't tell you how much more
that I became in the process and I had
so many problems and challenges that
came up you know I had a binge eating
disorder for a certain point in my life
where as a serious problem that's why I
was able to help button serve other
people on a youtube video that I have on
how to overcome binge eating and
overcoming that and the other problems
forced me to become more and have
allowed me to give and the giving and
growth is where the true fulfillment
comes not from what you get and it has
to be constant you have to remind
yourself of it you have to feel it and
associate to the growth and the giving
that you're doing and that's why I
choose to do what I do every day that's
why this is my mission my purpose this
is why I do what I do and you know I can
retire I could just sit around do
nothing I could travel whatever but I
continue to do what I do because this is
what gives me happiness and fulfillment
the process of this I'm not after I have
goals to achieve great things but again
I always remind myself it's not going to
make me happy who I become the growing
and the giving that I do that's the more
important thing and always reminding
yourself of that because that's the
truth
and it might take you a few experiences
to really know and understand this but
hopefully my sharing of this can
resonate with you and help you just
remind yourself that it's about the
journey not the destination and to be a
giver and become more that's the
ultimate gift that's the ultimate value
that you get and that's what you'll
ultimately be remembered for because at
the end of your life at your funeral one
day people are not going to talk about
you and say oh my god you know Stefan
had this amazing pentose in this amazing
car and a beautiful girlfriend and all
that sort of stuff they're not gonna
talk about that they're gonna talk about
who you are as a person as a human being
who you become you're someone of
integrity of honesty of value there's
someone who has intelligence someone who
is you know I really admire Stefan's
confidence or his his a giving or his
excellence and his standards too
excellent and his he was inspirational
he was Anna motivational person that's
how you want to be remembered and how
people will describe you
and then also what you've given they'll
say hey you know what Stefan you've
given incredible ways you've made
difference you build these houses in
these schools around the world that
that's your legacy man and how when
people is kid that that's an everlasting
theme that's house for this school your
name will be there and kids and families
will always remember that for
generations to come so who do you want
to be remembered as and who do you want
to be that's the ultimate goal the
ultimate the ultimate value of this all
so hopefully this can resonate with you
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want to thank you for that but I've you
know excited to go on that trip I'm
gonna be sharing with you guys the
journey and similar as I did last year
in El Salvador and looking forward to
sharing that guy with you guys but for
me that's one of the ultimate joys
that's more important than everything
else that I do is what I've given and
and making that difference in people's
lives and that's what it's about guys
nothing else can replace that so thanks
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